24/06/2025
Minsan, may malasakit ka…
pero ‘yung pagkakasabi, masakit pala.
Sa atin mga Pinoy, likas na ang pagtulong. Madalas, ang payo at pangaral ay galing sa magandang intensyon. Gusto lang nating may mapulot sila, may matutunan, o maiwasan ang pagkakamali.
Pero minsan, kahit maganda ang layunin, nasasaktan pa rin ‘yung pinagsabihan.
Bakit?
Dahil how we say things matters.
Dahil what we choose to say also matters.
Hindi masamang magpayo. Pero mas maganda kung may lambing.
Hindi masamang magtama. Pero mas maganda kung may pag-unawa.
Hindi masamang mag-alala. Pero mas magaan kung hindi mapanghusga.
So next time, before we speak, let us ask ourselves:
✔️ Will this uplift or put them down?
✔️ Am I coming from love or pride?
✔️ If someone told me this, how would I feel?
Dahil sa huli, hindi lang intensyon ang mahalaga — kundi relasyon.
Here are some phrases we could use to convey our good intentions with our loved ones. So that they will feel our real love for them. That:
Helping doesn’t mean sounding superior.
Caring doesn’t mean being hurtful.
Correcting doesn’t mean shaming
Let’s speak with love. 💬❤️