22/11/2025
You canโt change someone who doesnโt see a problem with their actions. And the more you try, the more you end up hurting yourself. ๐
Some people live in complete denial of how their behavior affects others. They donโt reflect, they donโt take accountability, and they donโt see anything wrong with the way they treat you. To them, itโs normalโฆ even when itโs damaging. And when someone is blind to their own flaws, no amount of talking, explaining, or heart-to-heart conversations will open their eyes.
At some point, you have to understand this truth:
Change is not something you force. Itโs something a person chooses.
You can love them.
You can support them.
You can guide them.
But you cannot make them grow.
And while youโre busy trying to fix someone who refuses to acknowledge their own behavior, you end up breaking yourself emotionally, mentally, and even spiritually.
Protect your peace.
Stop trying to convince someone who isnโt ready to listen.
Stop handing out chances to someone who doesnโt even recognize what theyโre doing wrong.
Stop shrinking yourself to maintain a connection thatโs costing you your happiness.
Let people be who they choose to be, even if it hurts.
Because the moment you step back, you finally give yourself space to breathe, to heal, and to attract the people who understand you without needing explanations.
Sometimes the hardest lesson is accepting that you canโt change others, but you can change the way you respond, and thatโs where your power is.
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