13/06/2020
A MINUTE TO READ IT #3: So your toddler refuses to take her medicine? (an answer to Lexie G’s mom)
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I know, I know! Giving medicine to a child less than 5 years old could quickly turn into a stand off, a minor skirmish, or an all out war.
It would help if the offending medicine comes in a flavor that the child likes and needs to be taken only once a day. But that’s just wishful thinking. To most little tykes, all medicines are yucky, the equivalent of Harry Potter’s Bertie Bott’s Jelly Beans with flavors of rotten egg and vomit combined. Yes, even those vitamins that come in raspberry, strawberry, orange or lemon flavors.
What is a parent to do?
Remember, most taste buds are at the back of the tongue. Try to give the medicine to the side of the tongue near the child’s inner cheek. Licking on ice or ice cream before taking the medicine can also help deaden said taste buds.
One could try role playing. Give the medicine to the favorite doll, teddy bear, or Iron Man (or the favorite action figure of the moment) first. Expound on how much Teddy likes the medicine and how big and strong he is now. Then quickly slip the medicine into the child’s mouth while she is ooh-ing and aah-ing over Teddy’s health.
But then, ooh-ing and aah-ing over Teddy’s health can only do so much. Time to do “ fooling the tongue” technique. Put the medicine on a teaspoon and cover it liberally with a dollop of ice cream, yoghurt, or chocolate syrup. Hopefully, the child will remember the yummy treat and not the yucky after taste. Sometimes, the “chaser effect” will work. Give the medicine first and quickly chase it up with ice cream, yoghurt, or chocolate syrup. Kisses chocolate is a favorite of mine. It is small enough not to be considered decadent, and will be remembered as a special treat every time medicine is indicated. A word of caution though. Talk to your child’s pediatrician first about this. Some medicines are not to be taken with a specific type of food or not to be taken with food at all.
If cajoling, bribery, and psychology fail, it’s time to call in the cavalry. Let someone hug Lexie tightly from behind pinning her arms, and masquerade this as an endearing hug. Pinch her cheeks gently but firmly so her mouth opens. Use a syringe or a dropper with the medicine in it and slide it gently towards the side of the tongue near the back of the inside of her lower cheek. After giving the dose, stroke outside her throat to make her swallow. Alternatively, you can give a quick forceful blow into her face. This should do the trick. But then give only enough of the medicine that the child or baby can swallow or she might choke. Repeat the procedure as needed.
When the time comes for her next dose of medicine, square your shoulders, put a sincere smile on your face ( children detect fake, insincere smiles a mile away), and say matter of factly: “ Time for your medicine.”
Then after all has been said and done, give yourself and your child a big hug and a pat on the shoulder, and say : Good job for another successful foray on making the medicine go down!