10/12/2025
So true - in TBRI training we also learn about the neuroscience of attachment and how too much "cry it out" can have devastating long term effects on attachment styles. Make sure your children know that you are available and they are safe! Meet the need, build attachment.
"It’s time to ask the tough questions.
Because when we give babies no choice but to cry it out, we need to ask what is the “it”?
The “it” is safety. The “it” is connection. The “it” is tenderness.
The “it” is us – their parents.
They are crying for us.
For us to come, for us to not leave, for us to pick them up, for us to soothe them, to hold them close.
As harsh a truth as that may seem, there’s no escaping it.
And what’s harsher is expecting babies to do what we can’t even do as adults – to ‘self soothe’."
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