13/12/2025
๐๐๐ช๐๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ก๐๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ฆ๐๐๐๐ก
Alam mo โyung moments na may babae tayong kilalaโฆ friend, cousin, office mate, kapitbahay na parang nag-a-apply for Wife Position kahit hindi pa nga nagpo-propose si guy? Yung tipong rinig na rinig mo sa kapitbahay niya ang โAte, may dumating pong laundry!โ tapos biglang sasagot siya ng, โSa boyfriend ko po โyan.โ
And youโre standing there thinking:
โGirl, kung may loyalty card ang pag-aasawa, platinum ka na!โ
We laugh, pero deep inside, alam nating totoo.
Hindi lang ito kwento niya.
Kwento ito ng libo-libong Pinay from single, dating, engaged, even married who forget their worth in the name of love.
Kaya kung lalaki ka, babae, married man, married woman, engaged, single, confused, hopeful, or may pinagdadaananโฆ itong post na โto ay para sa โyo.
Because what we give before marriage determines what we will live inside marriage.
And yes, kailangan nating pag-usapan ito nang mas malalim, mas matalino, mas may puso.
๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐๐ซ
Hindi lahat ng closeness godly closeness.
Yung โsleepover lang naman,โ โmagkasama lang kami sa room,โ โmagkakatabi lang kami matulogโ, hindi โyan bonding.
Provision โyan para sa flesh. At sabi ng ๐ฅ๐ผ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ญ๐ฏ:๐ญ๐ฐ, โ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ด ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ด๐น๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐น๐ฎ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐๐ป๐ผ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐ถ๐๐ฎ ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ผ.โ
Si Paul na ang nagsabi. Hindi ako.
And before you say, โPero strong naman ang self-control namin,โ let me remind you:
Ang katawan ay hindi superhero.
At ang temptation, hindi natatalo sa confidence.
Natatalo โyan sa distance.
โ๐๐น๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ป๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.โ ๐ญ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฒ:๐ญ๐ด.
Hindi sinabi, โNegotiate with it,โ
hindi โProve your maturity,โ
hindi โTry mo lang once.โ
Sabi, flee. Run. Evacuate, anak.
Purity is not old school.
Purity is protection.
๐๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ
May mga babae na ikinasal na sa puso nilaโฆ pero sa lalaki, โweโre just seeing where this goesโ pa rin.
Girl, hindi ka pwedeng Mrs. in your mind kung hindi ka pa Mrs. in his covenant.
Pinapalitan mo na apelyido mo?
Nakatali na future mo sa kanya?
In love ka na sa fantasy, hindi sa reality.
๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฐ:๐ฎ๐ฏ: โ๐๐ป๐ด๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐ป ๐บ๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐๐๐ผ ๐ป๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐น๐ฎ๐น๐ผ ๐๐ฎ ๐น๐ฎ๐ต๐ฎ๐.โ
Hindi ka iniingatan ng emotions mo.
Ikaw ang dapat mag-ingat.
๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐
๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฌ
Ito ang classic:
Naglalaba.
Nagluluto.
Naglilinis.
Nagpapalipas ng gabi.
Tapos full submission pa sa instructions niya like heโs your spiritual covering.
Tapos magtataka ka kung bakit hindi ka niya ma-decisionan pakasalan?
Simple.
Nakukuha na niya lahat, nang wala siyang binabayarang covenant.
๐๐ฝ๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฑ:๐ฎ๐ฎ was clear:
โ๐ช๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐, ๐๐๐ฏ๐บ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐ต๐๐๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐.โ
Hindi sinabi, โGirlfriends, submit to your boyfriend.โ
Submission is not for situationships.
It is for covenant.
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๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ฆ
Kung ikaw na ang sumasalo ng bills, groceries, gasolina, load, utang, emergencies, futureโฆ
Anak, hindi relationship ang tawag diyan.
Cost of living.
At ang lalaki na hindi marunong maging responsible bago kasal, hindi biglang magbabago pagkatapos.
Responsibility is not a wedding gift.
It is a character trait.
๐๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ฌ
Hindi lahat ng sweetness ay safe.
Hindi lahat ng โYou can trust meโ ay trustworthy.
At hindi lahat ng lalaking mabait today ay may emotional capacity to handle your truth tomorrow.
Ang tunay na wisdom, marunong maghintay ng covenant bago magbukas ng deepest wounds.
๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฎ๐ต:๐ญ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐๐:
โ๐๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ ๐ป๐ฎ๐ด๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐น๐ฎ๐ ๐ป๐ด ๐ฏ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐ด๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐ ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฎ.โ
Wisdom knows timing.
Wisdom knows limits.
๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ
If he dictates your clothes, friends, ministry, calling, schedule, career path,
that is not covering.
That is control.
๐ฎ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ:๐ญ๐ณ ๐๐ฎ๐๐,
โ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐.โ
Kung wala nang freedom, wala nang Spirit.
Kung wala nang Spirit, hindi โyan love.
๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐
Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
๐ญ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฒ:๐ญ๐ต-๐ฎ๐ฌ: โ๐๐ฎ๐๐ผโ๐ ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐น๐ถโฆ ๐ธ๐ฎ๐๐ผโ๐ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐น๐ถ ๐๐ฎ ๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ด ๐ต๐ฎ๐น๐ฎ๐ด๐ฎ.โ
Any man who disrespects your body before marriage
will disrespect your destiny after marriage.
Kung hindi ka niya kayang igalang habang wala pa siyang covenant,
huwag mo nang asahang igagalang ka niya kapag may papeles.
๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ซ๐ง ๐๐๐ ๐
๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฌ
Ang red flag ay hindi decoration sa relationship.
Hindi siya aesthetic.
Hindi siya โphase lang niya.โ
Violence.
Lust.
Irresponsibility.
Lying.
P**n.
Controlling behavior.
Lack of vision.
Pride.
๐๐
๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ:๐ฏ ๐๐ฎ๐๐,
โ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ด๐ผ๐ฑ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฒ.โ
Kung ang relationship mo ang nagiging diyos mo,
hindi na love ang nasa gitna.
Idolatry na.
And anything you idolize, you will eventually suffer for.
๐ ๐
๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐
๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ
Kung babae ka, babae ako, babae tayong lahat na minsan sobrang magmahal kaya nauubosโฆ
This is your reminder:
Your worth is not proven by sacrifice.
Your value is not proven by service.
Your dignity is not proven by effort.
When you honour God, God honours your marriage.
When you honor your boundaries, the right man will honour you.
When you preserve your purity, the right man will protect it.
Now pause.
Think.
Reflect.
Ano ang ibinibigay mo ngayon na hindi dapat bago ang covenant?
At ano ang dapat mong kunin pabalik para maibalik ang dignity mo?
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Follow, stay close, and letโs grow wiser together.
๐ธShei Speaks