17/05/2025
Walang katapat na sakit at pagod and mararanasan mo pag nanganak via normal delivery. Ang sabi nga eh nakabaon na ang isang paa ng isang babae during labor and delivery. And tapos ito pa ang sasabihin sa iyo after everything? Ang sakit naman.
JOLLIBEE PAPER BAG STORY
Went through a traumatic experience giving birth at a public hospital, Alone for 16 hours of labor and in pain every 5 mins. The nurses were nice, but the doctors were the opposite and would get mad at me for reacting to the pain I felt, Had lE checked 5 times and it was the worst pain ever, while laying on an uncleaned delivery bed, with blood stains of other people. All this while another woman 5 steps away from me is screaming in horror giving birth, no curtains or anything to divide us.
Doctor did a splinting to move my stool out, didn't wipe me or offer a napkin, but she just placed my old diaper back on. I gave birth where there were atleast 10 students standing infront of me, one holding a phone which I noticed was taking a video without my consent..
Afterwards, one nurse gave me a bad look and told me to go take a bath. was forced to take a cold bath after literally just giving birth, because they said there was no hot water available anymore.
Feared I could die because it might not have been safe to take a cold bath I felt i lost all my dignity...
Told everything to my husband and all he said was
"Ok lang yan. Tapos naman na."
He gave no eye contact, no comfort, just those plain words.
And the next day, he comes back to the hospital holding a paperbag of Jollibee My eyes lightup and say "Hala Love, sarap nyan!" And he says,
"Sorry Lab, sakin lang toh, Gutom na kasi talaga ako, Alam mo naman na puyat din ako naghihintay sayo.. May libre naman na hospital food dyan, yun nalang sayo.
