28/08/2023
Here are some destructive habits you're probably doing in a regular basis to absolutely screw your business, relationships and life in general:
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If you find yourself constantly overachieving, taking full control of projects or tasks, leaving little room for others to contribute or take ownership, then this can lead to people around you "UNDER PERFORMING"
and what do you get in return by always overachieving?
โ stress & burn out for working longer hours
โ disappointment & resentment for your people because they don't want to hustle & sacrifice their well being like you do
โ neglecting other important aspects of your life - RELATIONSHIPS. with your loved ones, family and even with friends that matter to you.
If this has been a LOOOOONG time concern for you, then you need to understand that the common denominator is YOU. โ๏ธ
Maybe it's about time that you expand your awareness about this so you can change this destructive behavior for the better. ๐
Here are few common root causes of overachieving:
โ๏ธ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ถ๐๐บ. If you grew up in a household where the only way for you to get attention, praise or approval is by achieving perfection and meeting rigid expectations from your parents/guardians, then you may have formed this habit subconsciously.
The thing is, continuous chase of validation for overachievement is an unending and exhausting cycle.
Like any form of addiction you can't have enough of what you don't actually need. ๐
โ๏ธ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด. If you struggle saying no to demands from clients, investors, or partners, then this can lead to burnout.
The root cause of this behavior can vary from person to person and may be influenced by a combination of factors such as:
๐ having low self esteem (๐ฃ๐บ ๐จ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ท๐ข๐ญ ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง)
๐ fear of rejection or abandonment (๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐จ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐จ๐ต๐ฉ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข๐ท๐ฐ๐ช๐ฅ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ง๐ญ๐ช๐ค๐ต ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ค๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ช๐ด๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ข๐ช๐ฏ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฑ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ท๐ฐ๐ช๐ฅ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ)
๐ lack of assertiveness skills (๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ง๐ง๐ช๐ค๐ถ๐ญ๐ต๐บ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ & ๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ถ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ด, ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ข๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ด๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ข ๐ธ๐ข๐บ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐ท๐ฆ)
โ๏ธ ๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ.
If you find yourself always being overly protective to the point of controlling, micromanaging or even "manipulating" another people, then you might have white knight syndrome.
This is a pattern of behavior where you feel a strong need to rescue or protect others because you view them as helpless VICTIMS who needs saving.
wuhoo! happy national heroes day! ๐
The thing in always acting like a hero or savior in other people's lives is that you are training people to depend on you and you become more frustrated if people don't seem to acknowledge your efforts.
These are just some of the INVISIBLE yet DESTRUCTIVE HABITS driven and ambitious entrepreneurs often overlook just because they are successful in business.
Well, you can keep focusing all your time and energy making more money but still have failed relationships and sabotage your life. โ๏ธ
If any of these resonated with you, don't hesitate to reach out to me and let's get deeper in uncovering why you're stuck in these unhealthy patterns of thinking you can't seem to let go of. okay?
happy to help fellow heroes out there. ๐๐
Your business mindset coach,
Den โ๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐๐ช๐ง๐๐ค๐ช๐จโ Diesel