27/09/2025
We are raising a generation of kids who can’t handle the word NO.
And you know whose fault it is?
Parents who would rather keep the peace than parent.
Too many moms and dads are afraid of tantrums. Afraid their child will be “mad” at them. Afraid of looking like the “bad guy.” So what happens?
The child cries — and the parent gives in.
The child demands — and the parent negotiates.
The child throws a fit — and the parent says, “Okay, just this once.”
But here’s the problem ⬇️
If a child can’t handle NO at home, they won’t know how to handle rejection in the real world.
Life is full of NO’s:
❌ No, you didn’t get the job.
❌ No, you can’t skip the consequences.
❌ No, the world doesn’t revolve around you.
A tantrum might work on mom and dad, but it won’t work on a boss, a teacher, or a spouse.
Parenting isn’t about raising children who are happy every second. It’s about raising adults who can handle disappointment, self-control, and reality.
Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is stand firm, look your child in the eye, and say: “NO. And I mean it.”
✍️parenting