20/10/2025
Raise kids who are ready for lifeโbefore life itself forces them to learn the hard way.
HAVE WE "BABIED" OUR KIDS TOO MUCH?
If your kid doesnโt make their bed, doesnโt wash their dishes, doesnโt do their laundry, and doesnโt keep their backpack organizedโthis isnโt โjust a phase.โ
Itโs a sign that basic habits of responsibility havenโt been built.
Your child isnโt lazy. Theyโve simply learned that someone else will always step in and do it for them.
Kids need to be raised to be useful. Too many teens today donโt do chores or take care of their own space because they were constantly excused, overprotected, or simply ignored. Now they expect everything to be done for themโwithout ever learning to step up.
Youโre not just teaching them how to keep their room tidy.
Youโre preparing them for life.
A real-life example
A mom once admitted that her 17-year-old son had never made his bed. She always justified it:
โPoor guy, heโs in school all dayโheโs tired when he gets home.โ
One weekend, he stayed home alone. The result? His bed turned into a โnestโ for three days straight. He barely ate, didnโt shower, and left chaos all around him.
When she came back, all he said was:
โI didnโt know where to start.โ
The problem wasnโt that he couldnโt do it.
The problem was that he never had to.
A quick check for parents today
Look at your childโs bed. If itโs not madeโdonโt yell.
Instead, ask yourself:
Am I raising my child for comfortโor for life?
What lessons am I skipping today that life will demand from them tomorrow?
Practical tips
โก Start small. A daily habit of making the bed before leaving the house is a foundation.
โก Donโt give rewards for basics. Teach them that taking care of their space is a form of self-respect.
โก Stay consistent. If they resist, donโt back downโyour consistency is the most powerful tool you have.
โก And most importantly: Never do it for them again. Not even once.
A child who canโt make their bed today may not know how to put their life together tomorrow.
Every habit you donโt build becomes a weight theyโll carry laterโsometimes one that can break them.
Raise kids who are ready for lifeโbefore life itself forces them to learn the hard way.
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