30/09/2025
A story of an OFW and a daughter na nalayu ang loob saiyaha.. isa ka-mama na kinahanglan mu-layo, para maka-provide.🥹
Let’s be real…Distance sometimes builds walls. Grabeh ka-relate ang mga anak ug mga mama ani.
For years nga wala sila mag-uban, murag naay invisible gap nga ni-grow between them. Every time mag-“I love you” xa sa chat, seen-zone lang saiyang anak. Pag uli niya for vacation, dili daw mu-tapad ang anak. Imagine the pain for a mama nga gi-sacrifice tanan just to give a better life, pero pag-uli, murag stranger na hinoon xa sa anak. 🥹💔
The mama told me, “Ma’am, ikaw na bahala sakong anak, please…”
She didn’t want nga mag-padayun nga ing-ana ang ilang relationship. She decided na ipa-go through jud sa process iyang anak for 6 hours straight.. xa ra sad nagdecide unza kadugayan i-process.. so I ran BARS + BODY PROCESS + TTTE clearings..para ma-release ang heavy feelings nga dugay na diay niyang gi-bitbit.
And then… THIS happened days after 🥹
“Hi mama, I’m sorry for my mistakes…thank you for everything.”
A simple handwritten note lang from her daughter. pero para ky mama nya, it’s priceless. Murag bridge nga gi-tukod balik between them. ❤️ maklaro sad sa face na nag-lighten up na jud xa.. gaan na daw.
Daghan kaau OFW parents nga outwardly strong, pero deep inside, they’re breaking. Daghan sad anak nga nag-dala ug kasakit nga dili lang ma-istorya.
Healing doesn’t mean forcing them to be close again.. healing means releasing the pain nga nag-build ug wall.
Sometimes, kailangan lang i-create ang space
where both hearts can breathe and be heard. And yes, this is what I do, creating space. 🥹
Para sa tanan nga OFW moms and dads: your love is felt more than you know.
Para sa mga anak nga naay ginagunitan nga sakit: your feelings are valid… healing is always possible.
This letter reminds us: love never really leaves..sometimes it just needs help finding its way back home. ❤️🩹
I see you. I love you. ❤️ Bars Beyond Limits