Rilen Tilos

02/12/2020

Your message moms,

Even how hard it is na nararanasan natin sa ating mga anak.

Wether we like it or not, anak pa rin natin sila.

Nanggaling sila sa atin and God gave them to us.

Kas**a s**a man and it seems like you wanted to give up on them.

But always remember the times when you love your child unconditionally.

Do not concentrate on the mistakes of your child but concentrate on the lovable side of them.

Remember the time when you almost gave up everything for them.

The time that you do not care for anyone but your child.

You should always remember that mas marami kang alam and naiintindihan kesa sa naiintindihan ng anak mo.

Always remember your children needs your attention.

Ask them if they are ok.

Pag meron conflict, everything is misinterpretation.

Just be empathetic with your child.

Be in their shoes when conflicts arise.

And you will be ok.

As a Mom.

Patuloy kang maging matatag at mapag intindi.

Ask God for wisdom continually.

Read Psalms and Proverbs in the Bible daily.

It is your guide and your map on how to be good and strong as a Mom.

Have a blessed day,

Your Meconfident Family,

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25/08/2020

Good morning Moms,

Your Message today..

Handling your teens sometimes are so drowning.

Tumataas ang blood pressure mo everytime sinasagot ka nila.

By bumibilis ang heartbeat mo everytime na you feel like unrespected.

But remember this as your young ones become young adult you need to be patient with them.

You wait.

You pray.

You hope.

How long?

Hindi mo alam.

In Psalm 37 has so many promises from God.

Rest in Him.

You will find great comfort in these verses.

It can help you survive when you think you are drowning.

You will find great comfort during the trying periods of your children's adolescenes if you lean on a higher power.

Take note, it is not on the number of prayers you made that will change your youth.

It is the way prayer change you towards ypur youth.

God loves your teen ager more than you love them.

He even gave up Jesus, His son, to die on the cross for your son and daughter.

Question...

Can your son or daughter see that God is loving him/her through you?

Have a nice day,

Your Meconfident Family

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16/08/2020

Your message moms.

Good morning moms.

Train your children on the way they should go so that when they grow they will know how to survive.

Before wala tayong parenting issue.

Ngayon iba na kasi nasa information age na tayo.

If hindi ka magiging aware sa mga anak mo na nasa social media na palagi.

Social media will be the one to influence your children.

Most of our millennials today are dominant.

Gusto nila sila na palagi ang masusunod.

Pag sinasagot ka everytime, sinassbihan mo sila eh tumataas ang blood pressure mo kasi, feeling mo di ka na nirerespeto.

Tinatanong mo ang sarili mo kung saan ka nagkamali sa pagpapalaki ng anak mo.

You are being shock of how they are dealing with you.

Parang di mo na kilala ang anak mo.

You feel that way as a mom, kasi you are being brought up by your parents na ganoon dapat.

Na ikaw as a Mom, and as a parent, ang may karapatan at dapat eh ikaw ang masusunod at ikaw dapat ang palaging tama.

Subalit nasa information age na tayo, nagbabago na ang panahon. Your children especially your teens are expecting you too respect them.

To give them the right to be listen.

They do not wanted to be nag all the time.

They wanted two way communication so that you will have an open communication.

Para maiwasan ninyo ang tinatawag ma generation gap na kadalasan nagiging problema sa loob ng bahay bilang mag-ina.

Kung hindi mo eto gagawin..

Hindi mo na alam ang gagawin mo kasi you don't know how to handle your teens and the rest of your kids.

Before we don't care about the importance of parenting.

Parenting which dwells more on how to handle children and studies human behavior.

Ngayon na kaagaw mo na si social media sa pagpapalaki ng mga anak mo, you will need to know the practical ways how to handle them plus biblical principles that will guide you.

If you will not act and will not go with the way social media influence your children.

Warning.

Read this.

Hindi mo na alam kung anu ang mangyayari sa anak mo.

You will surely suffer the consequences.

So you have to be aware of the factors why your children are acting differently on the way you treated your parents before.

And On the way your children are treating you now.

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Have a blessed morning.

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26/05/2020

To All Moms

Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Overthinking..

Most of us moms are entertaining right now. Some can and some cannot. It even came to the point that you will be out of your mind and sanity. This applies not only to us moms but to our friends, family, neighbors, people around us. Awareness specially to us moms is so important because we are the one who rear our children, build them character, teach them values. How can we do it if we ourselvea are weak. So we need to be aware for our children.

Because of the effect brought about by Covid-19, we are thinking what lies behind us for our future.. How about the kids, are we or we will not send them to school? Our job when and how are we going to make money for our family. How are we going to help each other overcome all of this things.

So I made a research to help you get over it and overcome:

Treatment for depression is carried out through two ways, pharmacology and psychotherapy. Initial pharmacological treatment is prescribed by a family doctor at the same time a psychological intervention plan is followed which prepare a person to get relief from depression and avoid its return.

Aside from the medical treatment made by your Doctor if medications are already done, consider the following tips:

1. Daily Routine - planning a program of activities is one of the most common strategies used by psychologist. This is being fulfilled for several weeks with the help of the patient's family.

A. Choose a pleasant activities and avoid
diffficult ones.

B. Seek social activities like talking with friends.

C. If possible continue normal activities like studying or work but reducing the time and its intensity.

D. Manual work is advice like sewing, gardening, carpentry.

E. Include physical exercise.

F. The schedulenof activity should be detailed as possible like 8:00-8:30am or 8:30-9:00am.

2. Your Way of Thinking - Individual must intentionally focus on their thoughts patterns. They must not focus on the dangers or imperfections. Rather they should focus on the beautiful things and pleasant memories. And if negative things going on they have to withstand or overcome it instead of self pity

Those who are suffering from depression have a tendency to:

A. Have unrealistic objectives and expectations.
B. Point out their personal failures and minimize their achievement.
C. Compare themselves to others and feel they are inferior.

The person should not focus on their inferiority and self pity instead count their personal qualities and capabilities to be of great value.

3. Family Should Support - treatment and overcoming depression progresses better if there is a family support to the depressed individual.

When your child, your spouse suffers from depression it is very important that the problem will faced seriously. Consider the following :

A. Listen with attention and sympathy. This has a therapeutic effect.

B. Treat the person naturally and calmly but never censure.

C. Help him/her occupied like a family camping even in a nearby farm or beachor give a small task.

D. Encourage her, nurture and give hope that he/she will overcome her depression with dignity.

E. Support her medical treatment by reminding the importance of taking medications.

F. Expect difficulties especially if the case becomes worst like if the individual always says " life is not worth living for or wishes to die.

G. Monitor the individual if she/he eats properly and adequately and does not use alcohol.

4. Do Something for Others - acts of helping others help the depressed individual realized that there are people who have greater than his or her own. Example help him go shopping with an elderly or visit a hospitalized friend or family.

5. Look to the Future with Hope - if you are feeling the symptoms of depression you need to understand that the future is not at the mercy of circumstances but you are an important part of tomorrow.

6. Explains Failures with Reality - be aware of your strengths and weaknesses. That you are unique and specially made by God. If you fail in some areas like in class or in relationship or in your career, think that there is a better opportunities lies ahead that God prepares for you. In Romans 8:28 " And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose" (Inspired by The Power of Hope Series, Health and Home)

To your Peace Of Mind,

Rilen

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1. Know yourself and your current state of mind.

2. Know your strength and weaknesses.

3. Know that in your own capacity you cannot do it alone but only with Jesus who is powerful and sovereign to help you overcome your fear and conquer your life.

4. You cannot do it alone but with God.

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05/04/2020

27/03/2020

Paano ka mag response kay Covid-19

25/03/2020

A Midnight Thought For Today:

To All Mothers in the World " Show yourself strong so all the members of your family will be strong.. Show yourself weak and all of them will be weak"

If you keep on talking about negative things inside your house all of your members will be negative too. But develop positivity and all of them will look at things positively.

Cling unto Jesus and His love will lead your way with wisdom, perseverance and hope.

In Philippians 4:6-7 " Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksiving let your request be known to God. And the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Goodmornight everyone :)

23/03/2020

Jeremiah 5:18-31 Says

18 “Yet even in those days,” declares the Lord, “I will not destroy you completely. 19 And when the people ask, ‘Why has the Lord our God done all this to us?’ you will tell them, ‘As you have forsaken me and served foreign gods in your own land, so now you will serve foreigners in a land not your own.’

20 “Announce this to the descendants of Jacob
and proclaim it in Judah:
21 Hear this, you foolish and senseless people,
who have eyes but do not see,
who have ears but do not hear:
22 Should you not fear me?” declares the Lord.
“Should you not tremble in my presence?
I made the sand a boundary for the sea,
an everlasting barrier it cannot cross.
The waves may roll, but they cannot prevail;
they may roar, but they cannot cross it.
23 But these people have stubborn and rebellious hearts;
they have turned aside and gone away.
24 They do not say to themselves,
‘Let us fear the Lord our God,
who gives autumn and spring rains in season,
who assures us of the regular weeks of harvest.’
25 Your wrongdoings have kept these away;
your sins have deprived you of good.

26 “Among my people are the wicked
who lie in wait like men who snare birds
and like those who set traps to catch people.
27 Like cages full of birds,
their houses are full of deceit;
they have become rich and powerful
28 and have grown fat and sleek.
Their evil deeds have no limit;
they do not seek justice.
They do not promote the case of the fatherless;
they do not defend the just cause of the poor.
29 Should I not punish them for this?”
declares the Lord.
“Should I not avenge myself
on such a nation as this?

30 “A horrible and shocking thing
has happened in the land:
31 The prophets prophesy lies,
the priests rule by their own authority,
and my people love it this way.
But what will you do in the end?

23/03/2020

This Page Longs to help people who undergo depression and have an anxiety attack.

This will help people discover how special they are and unique and has an ability to overcome their fear and will know how to conquer their life.

On this page I will help you grow your faith in God and will help you nourish your capacity to move on and go on with life regardless how difficult your current situations today and in the future.

Thats all for today.

Until next time :)