Arantxa Joseph - Somatic Pleasure & Intimacy Coach

Arantxa Joseph - Somatic Pleasure & Intimacy Coach “Welcome home to the innocence of your body!”
Somatic Sxxology, Intimacy & Pleasure Education

I’ll be 45. On the 19th November.A year ago, I didn’t celebrate my birthday. Nor did I the year before that.This year… t...
16/11/2025

I’ll be 45. On the 19th November.

A year ago, I didn’t celebrate my birthday. Nor did I the year before that.
This year… things are changing.

I am honouring my grief.
I am honouring my joy.
I am honouring my boundaries.
I am honouring my body.
I am honouring my purpose.
I am honouring my roots.
And I am honouring the woman I am becoming.

So here’s a look back…
The months that shaped me.
The lessons that cracked my heart open.
The miracles that kept arriving.
The joy that saved me.
The medicine of dance, community & self-love.
The bloom that insisted on happening. 🌹

Because we are not victims of our past.
We are the bloom born from it.
And this year, I celebrate ME. Fully.

If you are curious to know a little more about me and how life moulded me
Comment “BLOOM” and I’ll send you the link to my full birthday blog
or go right now to the link in my bio to read “A Birthday Letter to My Life | Celebrating 45 Years on Earth”.

Here’s to blooming on our own terms.
Here’s to the women we are becoming.

Thank you dearly for taking the time to witness me, to see me.

Love, ♥️ Arantxa

PS: Don’t send me birthday wishes just yet please. Only on Wednesday, 19th November.

Eighteen years ago, I gave birth to my son .mky._zz and to a new version of myself.From trauma to trust, from fear to fr...
14/10/2025

Eighteen years ago, I gave birth to my son .mky._zz and to a new version of myself.

From trauma to trust, from fear to freedom… this was the moment that I embodied fully my power.

Zair, happy 18th birthday my love.

You came into this world through dance, rhythm, through love, through my deepest surrender.

You taught me what real strength feels like…not the kind that pushes, but the kind that opens.

Watching you grow into the man you are (so loving, grounded, and guided by truth) fills me with pride and gratitude.

I love you beyond words. ❤️

This story is a celebration 🎉 of you, of birth, of healing, and of how we both came into our power that day.

And a special thank you to your daddy for creating this beautiful 8-minute video clip, and for being there with me through it all, supporting me, believing in me, and doing this together. 🙏🏾

🌿
✨ Read the full story on the blog: “Zair Turns 18…A Birth Story, A Rebirth of Me.”

Comment REBIRTH below and I’ll send it directly to you or head to the link in bio to read it now. 💫

✨ Save this post and come back to it when you need the reminder. Or simply want to reflect on this topic. Many of us unk...
08/10/2025

✨ Save this post and come back to it when you need the reminder. Or simply want to reflect on this topic.

Many of us unknowingly bring our childhood wounds into our adult relationships…turning lovers into parents, and passion into caretaking.

This is tender, human, and also deeply transformable.

With awareness, we can learn to meet our partners as equals, not as projections of our past.

If this resonates, and you sense that having support could help you or your relationship, reach out.

No pressure, just connection.

Let’s feel into whether this work might be right for you. 🌿





06/10/2025

Some mornings, I look in the mirror (messy hair, granny robe on 🤣) and feel completely at home in myself.

No filters. No pressure to perform. Just presence.

For so long, we were taught to curate, perfect, and hide the parts that feel too real.

But here’s your reminder: beauty lives in aliveness, in the depths of you, not in control.

The lioness doesn’t concern herself with how others perceive her.

She moves from her body. From her knowing. From her joy.
She moves from her inner sense of beauty.

This is what I do in life (and this is what I’m here to encourage you to do too)…
To be alive: in your plæsure, in your resistance, in the bedroom,
with yourself and with others.

🦁
If this resonates with you (if you crave authenticity, sensual embodiment, and the freedom to live in your body without apology) follow me.

Stay close for reminders, stories, and practices that bring you home to yourself.

✨ Because this is what I’m about: living, breathing, and being, simply & unapologetically.

🌹Arantxa

Today reminded me just how much I love this work. ✨Especially the tender spot I carry for holding space for men.Over the...
01/10/2025

Today reminded me just how much I love this work. ✨
Especially the tender spot I carry for holding space for men.

Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of sitting with some truly exceptional men… men who arrived open, willing, ready to look within.

Not just to skim the surface, but to meet their deepest truths… their core wounds… and to be met there with compassion and radical acceptance.

This work isn’t about “fixing.”
It’s about taking responsibility for your intimacy.
For your plæsure.
For your capacity to create the kind of love and connection you long for.

And when a man claims that, when he chooses to soften, to listen, to be present with himself, something beautiful unfolds. Int!macy begins to blossom. Plæsure becomes natural again. Erøs becomes life-giving.

I love creating spaces where the pressure dissolves, where nothing is expected, and where everything can unfold in its own rhythm.

This is what I love most: witnessing the body, the heart, the self remember what it already knows.

🌿 The season for 1:1s is open again. 🌿
If you feel the call, if you’re ready to explore what
int!macy can open for you…my space is here.

DM me: What’s one thing you’d love to transform in your int!macy?

Looking forward to hear back from you.





She came to me because she had never been able to have an “O” during p3n€trative s/xShe thought there was something wron...
19/09/2025

She came to me because she had never been able to have an “O” during p3n€trative s/x
She thought there was something wrong with her.

But the truth is, even though she never had one, she was faking it.
She faked plæsure.
She faked “O’s”.
To please. To perform. To not “fail” as a woman.

And I told her: stop. Don’t fake it anymore.

Because when we fake it, we not only confuse our partner, we confuse ourselves.

The body is saying one thing, the mouth another.
And this disconnect kills the possibility of true intimacy.

And the biggest enemy of “O” is exactly this: pressure.

The pressure to “get there,” to be good, to satisfy.
But “O” does not come from pressure.
It needs space, breath, presence, authenticity.

👉🏽 This is just a piece of the story I share in much more detail on my blog (link in bio).
If this resonates with you, go read it, it’s in the link in my bio, or comment “O” & I’ll drop it striding to your inbox …you might find a reflection of your own story.

✨ And here’s an invitation:
If you organize events, have a community, or simply want to open space for real conversations about
pleasure and intimacy — reach out.
I love co-creating gatherings where we can speak about these truths that are so often taboo, but can change lives.

✨ Never Too Late ✨When I became a mother at 21, I had just discovered my biggest dream: to travel to West Africa and imm...
11/09/2025

✨ Never Too Late ✨

When I became a mother at 21, I had just discovered my biggest dream: to travel to West Africa and immerse myself in dance. It was everything I wanted. But life brought me another invitation: motherhood.

It was hard. Many times I felt alone, overwhelmed — carrying children, home, work, and still the desire to dream. I asked myself so many times: “What did I get myself into?”

And at the same time, it was the greatest initiation of my life. A school of love, resilience, and healing. Today, with three children, I feel only gratitude.

🌸 Because motherhood has taught me something essential: it’s never too late to dream, to dance, to learn, to begin again.



✨ This is just a glimpse of the story I shared on my blog.
If you’d like to read the full text, drop a 🌹 in the comments and I’ll send you the link or go to my bio.

💃🏽 And if you feel the call to reconnect with yourself through dance:
Afrodance Workout begins NEXT TUESDAY, September 16th in Aljezur.

Spots are almost gone…send me a message or drop a 💃🏽in the comments to secure your place.

And before I close, I want to give a big big up, love and respect to the father of my children. 💜

He is my brother in this life, and I’m deeply grateful to him for meeting me in this wild journey of parenthood.

Thank you for walking with me, for sharing this endeavor, and for being part of this path that continues to shape us all. 🫂🫶🏽✨

Hey coração , welcome ✨👉🏽 Save this post for quick reference and add me to your Favorites so you don’t miss anything.(Ho...
02/09/2025

Hey coração , welcome ✨

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Whether you’ve just arrived or you’ve been dancing beside me for years, thank you for being here.

Your presence (and your comments, DMs, little hearts) truly matters.

I believe the internet can be a real place for connection, support, and remembering the everyday magic of being alive. And a loving reminder: this space is a bridge, not a substitute…nothing replaces the warmth of being together in person.

Around here we do both: move our bodies and tend to our intimacy, because they’re the same river.

What you’ll find on my page:
• Somatic S*x Education (18+): shame-free, trauma-aware, consent-centered.
• Tips & insights on intimacy, plæsure, boundaries, embodiment.
• Client case reflections (anonymized) + science-backed nuggets.
• Essensual Movement & Expression: I model my own sensual, embodied dance to inspire yours.
• AfroDance: my classes, students, playlists, sweaty joy.
• Movement & well-being for seniors.
• Truths from a middle-aged woman, 20+ years of motherhood, still learning.
• Pre/peri-menopause body wisdom, transformation & growth.
• Real talk on belonging & identity from a mixed-race Afro-Caribbean/Spanish woman who didn’t fit the boxes AND rooted within.
• Personal shares on emotional & mental health, relationships, and healing.

If you’re here for my intimacy & s/x ed work — welcome.

If you’re here for the dance, welcome.
If you’re here for both, even better. 🧡

AfroDance Workout sign-ups are open and spaces are filling. We start in 2 weeks!

Come sweat, smile, and regulate your nervous system with music that moves you.

Link in bio to guarantee your spot.

Help me shape what comes next:
Comment one topic you want more of (pre/peri-menopause & pleasure / healing shame / embodied boundaries / solo practice / partnered intimacy / identity & belonging / emotional regulation / senior movement / AfroDance tips) or add your own!
Like, comment your topic, and sign up for AfroDance via the link in bio.

Endereço

Aljezur
Aljezur
8600-440

Horário de Funcionamento

Segunda-feira 10:00 - 16:00
Terça-feira 10:00 - 16:00
Quarta-feira 10:00 - 16:00
Quinta-feira 10:00 - 16:00
Sexta-feira 10:00 - 16:00

Telefone

+351964588588

Website

https://linktr.ee/arantxa.joseph

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