28/01/2026
When more challenging material comes up, in therapy or in close relationships, resistance can follow.
It can look like blanking out, tracking the room instead of the conversation, an urge to joke, analyse... Heaviness, tension, sleepiness are also common.
These responses don’t automatically mean something has gone wrong. They usually appear when attention moves closer to a lived experience that asks more from the nervous system than it can hold at once.
From a somatic perspective, resistance is protective. It signals a need to slow down and be met with care rather than pressure. I don’t believe in healing through force. The body has intelligent ways of defending itself, and those responses deserve respect.
When resistance shows up, it becomes part of the work. We get curious about how it’s organising itself, what it’s guarding, and what’s needed to stay present.
You don’t need to get rid of resistance to begin somatic therapy. You can bring it with you — and we work from there.
Warmly,
Jurga Bliss