12/09/2020
TWELVE HUMAN EVOLUTIONARY FACTS
1 - The other does not exist to please you or to displease you. The other exists to teach you.
2 - No one is to blame for what you are feeling. You choose the feelings you have right now. Only you.
3 - The art of living without expectations, but with perspective is the key to not being frustrated.
4 - you must Heal in you the addiction of the need for approval of the other. Only then will you be able to enjoy the boldness and natural confidence of your spirit, of your essence.
5 - You have no control over anything, however much you believe you do. Remember, in a little while the Earth will claim your body and you will leave this planet to enter a new phase of existence. Give up control, only then will you have dominion over yourself and your life. Control is a reflection of fear, mastery is a reflection of the state of absolute absence of internal tension and your encounter with peace.
6 - Do not be out of character to try to "fit" in the tight space of thought that the other has in relation to you. This is not going to work. When you cancel yourself to please someone, your light goes out and it's just you, who is in the dark, feeling lost.
7 - Do not believe what others say to you, however romantic and poetic it may be. What matters is attitudes, not words.
8 - Abandon pride and the delirium of believing that everything will be as you want or need.
9 - Everything is fleeting. Up close, life is a tragedy, from a distance it is a comedy. In a while you will laugh at all the dramas you have created. Everything passes. All.
10 - You are responsible for everything that is happening in your life. Your prevailing thoughts and feelings will shape your reality, whether you like it or not. So if you want to change your reality, change your thoughts and feelings.
11 - Emotional lack is not the need to receive, but the need to give. Only you can supply your emotional needs. Projecting them on someone is the same as asking someone to eat to satisfy your hunger.
12 - Live with simplicity and with more reality. Only then, who you really are, will it really emerge. Laugh more and don't take everything too seriously. After all, the essence of life is to discover yourself and enjoy this wonderful adventure called evolution.
Text by Joanna de Ângelis