04/11/2025
I've mentioned a few times (and I have written here in my bio) that I've been practicing Tai Chi for over 18 years, but I'm 53 years old. So then, what was I doing before that?
Well, a bit of everything.
My martial arts journey started in my late teens with a short stint in a Karate dojo.
Soon afterwards, I joined the US Army, where I was lucky to have a Judo blackbelt as one of my first roommates. It wasn't very long before I was hitting the mats with him, both figuratively and literally.
One reality of life in the military is that servicemembers relocate about once every three years. Unfortunately, Judo was not an option at my next duty station, so I decided to train in whatever style was available.
I kept up this pattern for the next decade and a half, progressing at various times through Taekwondo, Hapkido, Arnis, Krav Maga, Kickboxing, and Wing Chun before eventually settling on Tai Chi.
On the one hand, this was a wonderful path because it exposed me to so many arts and instructors. On the other hand, I often felt quite frustrated because I would attain an intermediate level of proficiency in an art, only to be forced to move and start all over again with something new.
What cannot be denied is that I learned to adopt (and adapt to) a beginner's mindset.
I'm intimately familiar with how it feels to be the new person in the class who doesn't know his left hand from his right foot. I've repeatedly been the person who does everything wrong and goes the opposite direction from everyone else.
I also know a few other things. For example, none of the other students really cared about my errors, being more concerned with refining their own techniques. They had all been through the same process at least once, so understood my situation.
I've never forgotten this lesson and it has left me with great compassion and admiration for people who are courageous enough to try something new, especially if doing so makes them feel self-conscious and awkward.
This discomfort passes. You just need to trust the process, and keep trying.
The only way to not improve is to stop practicing.