12/11/2025
A terapia moderna é NARCISISTA. Concordas? engl👇
Não fui eu que disse 🙂, mas podia perfeitamente ter sido. Quem o disse foi Dennis Prager.
E por mais desconfortável que seja ler isto, tenho de admitir: concordo com ele.
Vivemos numa era em que o autoconhecimento virou espetáculo. Um teatro de culpados e vítimas. Tudo é “o meu trauma”, “a minha dor”, “o meu limite”, “o meu processo”. A palavra “meu” nunca foi tão usada.
Não me interpretes mal, sou uma defensora convicta do amor-próprio. Mas o loop infinito de vitimização e falta de autorresponsabilidade está a deixar as pessoas cada vez mais frágeis. E mais longe da cura.
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Depois de leres, diz-me se concordas ou não? 😊
Modern therapy is narcissistic. Do you agree?
It wasn’t me who said that , but it very well could have been.
It was Dennis Prager.
And as uncomfortable as it may be to read this, I have to admit: I agree with him.
We live in an era where self-knowledge has become a performance.
A theater of victims and villains.
Everything is “my trauma,” “my pain,” “my boundary,” “my process.”
The word “my” has never been used so much.
Don’t get me wrong — I’m a firm believer in self-love.
But the endless loop of victimization and lack of self-responsibility is making people weaker. And further from real healing.
Ironically, the more people talk about “healing,”
the fewer kings and queens there are sitting on the throne of their own lives.
The stage of vulnerability has turned into a show for the ego.
And the therapist? Too often, a willing accomplice in the story — someone who, instead of freeing the client, keeps the victim trapped.
Yes, there are serious processes and brilliant therapists.
But there are also those who, by following theories without critical thinking, feed emotional dependence and create never-ending processes.
It’s called therapy — but sometimes it looks a lot like narcissism disguised as depth.
The “listen to me, understand me, validate me” rarely evolves into “act, change, grow.”
Maybe because the day you truly grow… you stop needing to go back.
Healing begins the moment you realize that:
• The world doesn’t revolve around your trauma.
• The therapist isn’t the hero of your story.
• And you already wear the crown of your healing — you just need to remember to use it.
Would it be easier to say what people want to hear? Of course.
It would probably bring more clients, more likes, more applause.
But it would be false. And I’d rather speak the truth that frees than the lie that comforts.
There’s a big difference between doing therapy and using therapy as an excuse not to grow. If you leave each session more dependent on your therapist than on yourself,
then something is wrong.
Because the goal isn’t for your therapist to understand you, it’s for you to overcome yourself.
Therapy should be a tool, not a crutch. A space to grow, not to hide.
At the end of the day, it’s not about blaming others.
It’s about no longer needing to blame.
It’s about looking in the mirror and remembering that from today on,
you sit back on the throne of your own life.