Conscious Parenting

Conscious Parenting Parenting empowered by knowledge. Understanding the science and psychology for why we parent the way.
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If you’re a parent who loves breaking free from culturally conditioned beliefs, this way of understanding baby and child...
15/11/2025

If you’re a parent who loves breaking free from culturally conditioned beliefs, this way of understanding baby and child sleep may resonate deeply.

In Conscious Parenting, sleep is not about control — it’s about connection, safety, and emotional release.

There are two key ideas that differ from the mainstream narrative:

1️⃣ Babies and young children need closeness to fall asleep.
Feeling safe, held, and connected helps their body relax.
This aligns with what many instinctively feel — closeness invites safety, and safety invites sleep.

2️⃣ Babies and children have an innate relaxation process.
And this is where Conscious Parenting shifts the lens:
For babies, that process looks like crying in arms when all needs are met — a natural way to release stress.
For toddlers and older children, it looks like rambunctious play, laughter, crying, or raging with the loving presence of a calm adult.
This emotional expression is not misbehavior — it’s healing.
It’s the body releasing stored tension so true rest can happen.

No surprise these ideas often clash with a culture that values compliance over connection.

But if you’re ready to support a child who is both securely attached AND deeply relaxed,
who sleeps because their nervous system feels safe and understood…

✨ DM me — let’s explore Conscious Parenting together.

If you’re a parent who loves breaking free from culturally conditioned beliefs, this way of understanding baby and child...
14/11/2025

If you’re a parent who loves breaking free from culturally conditioned beliefs, this way of understanding baby and child sleep may resonate deeply.

In Aware Parenting, sleep is not about control — it’s about connection and emotional release.

There are two key ideas that differ from the mainstream narrative:

1️⃣ Babies and young children need closeness to fall asleep.
Feeling safe, held, and connected helps their body relax.
This part aligns with classical Attachment Parenting — closeness invites safety, and safety invites sleep.
2️⃣ Babies and children have an innate relaxation process.

And this is where it gets beautifully different:
For babies, that process looks like crying in arms when all needs are met — a natural way to release stress.

For toddlers and older children, it looks like rambunctious play, laughter, crying, or raging with the loving presence of a calm adult.

This emotional expression is not misbehavior — it’s healing.
It’s the body moving out stored tension so true rest can happen.
No surprise these ideas don’t fit neatly within a culture that values compliance over connection.
But if you’re ready to support a child who is both securely attached AND deeply relaxed,
who sleeps because their nervous system feels safe and clear…
✨ DM me — let’s explore Aware Parenting together.

🧠 Parenting isn’t about eliminating anxiety — it’s about understanding it. 🌙This workshop helps you see anxiety from the...
12/11/2025

🧠 Parenting isn’t about eliminating anxiety — it’s about understanding it. 🌙

This workshop helps you see anxiety from the inside out — what it means for your child’s developing brain, and how to calm both their system and yours.

You’ll learn:
🧩 Why anxiety shows up
💞 How to co-regulate and respond
🌱 Tools to build safety and connection

📅 13 Dec (Saturday) | 9:30am–12pm
📍 Bukit Timah

Science-based, heart-led, and made for parents who want to parent from calm, not chaos.

A look back at the Soul Vision Board Workshop ✨✨May this board be a compass,a mirror,and a prayer in motion.Thank you fo...
10/11/2025

A look back at the Soul Vision Board Workshop ✨


May this board be a compass,
a mirror,
and a prayer in motion.

Thank you for showing up — fully, bravely, honestly.

The 3 things babies + children need for truly restful sleep ✨Yes — sleep matters.But what creates the conditions for dee...
09/11/2025

The 3 things babies + children need for truly restful sleep ✨

Yes — sleep matters.
But what creates the conditions for deep, restorative rest might surprise you…

1️⃣ TIREDNESS
Of course!
But here’s the twist → in Conscious Parenting, there’s no concept of “overtired.”
Their bodies are wise.
2️⃣ CONNECTION
We’re wired for closeness.
Babies + young children need to feel safe to fall asleep —
Just like our hunter-gatherer ancestors who slept best when held, close, and protected.
3️⃣ RELAXATION
This isn’t about doing things to them…
It’s about trusting that they innately know how to relax
and will activate their own natural calming system.

So what happens at bedtime?
You may notice your child…
• Cry
• Rage
• Become playful or silly
• Talk about their day
These aren’t “bad behaviors.”
They’re part of the body’s innate relaxation response —
a natural way to release stress, feelings, energy, and tension so they can settle.

🌙 When we lovingly hold space —
Whether that’s listening to their tears

Joining their playful release
Or hearing them process their day —
We guide them out of fight/flight and into softness, safety + sleep.

Sleep isn’t about control.

It’s about connection, trust, and emotional release.
If this resonates, save + share this post!

Want to learn more about nervous system + sleep?

Send me a DM ✨

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🌿 Inner Child Ceremony with Wil Kolen —An immersive afternoon of sound and soul — to reconnect with your inner child and...
09/11/2025

🌿 Inner Child Ceremony with Wil Kolen —

An immersive afternoon of sound and soul — to reconnect with your inner child and return to wholeness. ✨

Through movement, sound, and deep presence, this ceremony gently invites release — of old tension, old pain, and old patterns — so you can return to calm, balance, and self-love.

📅 6 Dec (Saturday) | 2pm–6pm
📍 The Raintree Condo

Facilitated by myself and Wil Kolen
A deep and gentle space to meet yourself again.

✨ The 3 things babies + children need for truly restful sleep ✨Yes — sleep matters.But what creates the conditions for d...
09/11/2025

✨ The 3 things babies + children need for truly restful sleep ✨

Yes — sleep matters.
But what creates the conditions for deep, restorative rest might surprise you…

1️⃣ TIREDNESS
Of course!
But here’s the twist → in Conscious Parenting, there’s no concept of “overtired.”
Their bodies are wise.
2️⃣ CONNECTION
We’re wired for closeness.
Babies + young children need to feel safe to fall asleep —
Just like our hunter-gatherer ancestors who slept best when held, close, and protected.
3️⃣ RELAXATION
This isn’t about doing things to them…
It’s about trusting that they innately know how to relax
and will activate their own natural calming system.

So what happens at bedtime?
You may notice your child…
• Cry
• Rage
• Become playful or silly
• Talk about their day
These aren’t “bad behaviors.”
They’re part of the body’s innate relaxation response —
a natural way to release stress, feelings, energy, and tension so they can settle.

🌙 When we lovingly hold space —
Whether that’s listening to their tears

Joining their playful release
Or hearing them process their day —
We guide them out of fight/flight and into softness, safety + sleep.

Sleep isn’t about control.

It’s about connection, trust, and emotional release.
If this resonates, save + share this post!

Want to learn more about nervous system + sleep?

Send me a DM ✨

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Did you know? 🤍Couples who regularly share small moments of physical affection —a hug, a kiss, holding hands, a back rub...
07/11/2025

Did you know? 🤍

Couples who regularly share small moments of physical affection —
a hug, a kiss, holding hands, a back rub, cuddling —
tend to feel more connected, more supported,
and even navigate conflict with greater ease.

It’s not the grand gestures…
It’s the daily touch that says:
✨ I’m here.
✨ You matter.
✨ We’re a team.

Physical connection soothes the nervous system, builds trust,
and reminds our bodies that we are safe with one another.

So today…
Reach for their hand.
Offer a hug.
Rest your head on their shoulder.
Those tiny moments?
They’re the glue. 🤝

Welcoming a new baby is beautiful — and tender.For your firstborn, it can feel like their whole world just shifted. Even...
06/11/2025

Welcoming a new baby is beautiful — and tender.

For your firstborn, it can feel like their whole world just shifted. Even secure kids may cling more, act out, or grow unusually quiet.

None of it means they’re “misbehaving.”

It simply means they’re asking:
“Do I still belong?”

With small moments of connection — validating feelings, offering 1:1 time, allowing regression — we help them feel safe again.

And when they feel secure…
love doesn’t divide.
It multiplies. 💛

Save this to support your little one during the transition ✨
Read the full blog at the link in my bio

Remember this 💛Loving our child isn’t about keeping them happy every moment…or avoiding every meltdown, conflict, or pow...
05/11/2025

Remember this 💛
Loving our child isn’t about keeping them happy every moment…
or avoiding every meltdown, conflict, or power struggle.

Real love is sometimes doing the hardest thing —
saying “no” and truly meaning it.
Not because we want control…
but because boundaries are safe.
Because guidance is love.
Because our job is to lead with both warmth and firmness.
Our children don’t need a parent who avoids discomfort —
they need a parent who can walk them through it.
That’s how resilience, trust, and emotional security grow. 🌱

🌿 Inner Child Ceremony with Wil Kolen An immersive afternoon of sound and soul — to reconnect with your inner child and ...
04/11/2025

🌿 Inner Child Ceremony with Wil Kolen

An immersive afternoon of sound and soul — to reconnect with your inner child and return to wholeness. ✨

Through movement, sound, and deep presence, this ceremony gently invites release — of old tension, old pain, and old patterns — so you can return to calm, balance, and self-love.

📅 6 Dec (Saturday) | 2pm–6pm
📍 The Raintree Condo

Facilitated by Cornelia Dahinten & Wil Kolen

A deep and gentle space to meet yourself again.

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