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24/12/2025

Yesterday, a girl came to me and shared how competitive she feels — how strong her need to win is, even to the point of breaking rules. What stood out was not the competitiveness itself, but how hard she was being on herself.

This is a message I often share with children (and adults) who place immense pressure on themselves:

"You don’t have to be 100% better than everyone else. Nobody is perfect. You just need to be 1% better than yourself yesterday."

This idea, inspired by Atomic Habits by James Clear, helps shift the focus away from constant comparison and perfectionism, and toward personal growth and emotional regulation.

When children learn that progress matters more than winning, they begin to build healthier motivation, resilience, and respect for boundaries.

Sometimes, winning isn’t about being the best — it’s about becoming a little better, one step at a time.

14/12/2025

I recently read this Straits Times story about the “Batik Uncle” of Holland Village celebrating his 100th birthday.
👉 https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/batik-uncle-of-holland-village-celebrates-100th-birthday-in-style

Beyond the celebration, it felt like a tribute to a life marked by consistency and presence. Over the years, he became a familiar part of the neighbourhood — not through grand gestures, but through simply being there.

In a fast-paced world, this story gently reminds us that meaning is often found not in how much we do, but from showing up with purpose and passion over time.

The founder of Wellie Batik has provided tailored batik pieces to a discerning clientele since 1978. Read more at straitstimes.com. Read more at straitstimes.com.

21/11/2025

Hello dear parents!

It’s officially the season where we all hope to slow down… while our kids somehow power up like little energizer bunnies 🤣

Sending you warm wishes for peace, joy, and beautiful memories with your loved ones this holiday season.
Happy holidays to your family! 💛

22/10/2025

We all need motivation — adults and children alike.
For adults, it might be a paycheck, a coffee break, or a well-deserved vacation.
For children, it might look like a sticker, a toy, or a word of praise.

It’s not bribery — it’s reinforcement. ❤️
Children learn best when their efforts are recognized and encouraged. While tangible rewards can motivate, your intangible gifts — love, quality time, words of affirmation, hugs, and acts of care — make the deepest impact.

Let’s fill our cups of love this week and share it with the little ones (and big ones!) around us. 💕

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21/10/2025

Supporting the Right Fit: Between Inclusion and Accessibility

For the past three years, I’ve supported a school in understanding children’s learning and social-emotional needs. The school’s commitment to fund assessments for low-income families shows real inclusion in action. 💛

Just today, in a report discussion, a parent shared his fears about moving his child to a SPED school — travel, cost, and uncertainty about the future. Many parents feel the same way too.

But inclusion isn’t about mainstream or SPED; it’s about finding the best-fit environment where a child can learn, connect, and grow. 🌱

Some children thrive with structure and smaller classes; others shine with peers in mainstream settings. What matters most is timely, consistent support so no child falls through the cracks. ❤️

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/children-autism-mainstream-schools-special-education-5388766

CNA speaks to parents, educators and psychologists to explore the growing trend of children with autism entering mainstream schools – and the support and struggles that come with it.

29/09/2025

Reading about the 11-year-old boy who never made it home from school broke my heart. 💔

I can’t stop thinking—were there missed signs? Did he ever get the chance to speak to a counsellor, or have someone really check in on his wellbeing? I can only imagine the regret his teachers and family members are carrying.

In my work, I’ve seen this pattern too often. Many families only step forward when a crisis happens. But by then, the damage can feel overwhelming. I’m working with a teenager now who first came for a consultation four years ago. His parents chose to wait and monitor, hoping things would improve. Today, he’s facing a court case. If support had started then, the story might be very different.

👉 The lesson is clear: It is easier to build strong children than to fix broken men. If help is needed, don’t wait.

Yong Le cried thrice that day; he took his life shortly after school. Read more at straitstimes.com. Read more at straitstimes.com.

14/09/2025

I’m grateful to have been interviewed by Chinese Zaobao to share one of my client’s growth journeys and some parenting tips on supporting children in today’s digital age.

Mobile phones and online games can quickly become addictive for children. Warning signs often show up early—like withdrawing to use devices, getting upset without screen access, or appearing distracted in conversations.

With early support, consistent family routines, and screen-free play, we can help children grow healthier habits. 🌿

Thank you to the families who allow me to journey alongside you—it’s always an honour.

Cheers

https://interactive.zaobao.com.sg/2025/screen-time/
(Credit: Jacynth Wang, senior writer of Lianhe Zaobao)

01/09/2025

Liverpool vs Arsenal gave us a weekend showdown. ⚽️
Now it’s time for the Monday kickoff—inbox derby, meetings marathon, and coffee as our 12th man. ☕️
Who’s ready?

16/08/2025

"My child just got a diagnosis. What should I do next?"

It’s overwhelming, and we get it. But a diagnosis isn’t the end. It’s the start of understanding your child better. Start with kindness and lead with calm.

Let’s shift the mindset:
👉 It’s not “what’s wrong with them?”
👉 It’s “how can I help them thrive?”

We’re here to walk this journey with you. WhatsApp us at 84955465 if you need support.

04/08/2025

Life can be as unpredictable as snow in Australia — rare, surprising, and sometimes exactly what we didn’t know we needed. Here's to embracing the beauty of the unexpected. ❄️✨

27/07/2025

Does your child melt down in malls or crowded places? 😞 It might be sensory overload — when lights, sounds, smells, and textures become too much for their brain to process.

They’re not being dramatic. They’re doing their best to cope. 💛

21/07/2025