Nothando T. Dlamini

15/10/2025

As a migrant mom, there is only a certain type of pain that you understand; the kind that sits heavy on your chest when you miss a birthday, when your child is sick, school meetings or even the chance to see your babies go to school in the mornings. You left because you love them and you want a better future for them, hence the sacrifice....

As a migrant mom, there is only a certain type of pain that you understand; the kind that sits heavy on your chest when you miss a birthday, when your child is sick, school meetings or even the cha…

08/10/2025

Can I be honest with you? You are not weak because you feel afraid. You are not “less spiritual” because anxiety still sneaks into your chest even while you are praying. You are not broken because faith doesn’t erase fear overnight. Faith and fear can absolutely coexist. In fact, they often do. The question isn’t whether fear shows up, instead it’s whether we let it drive the car....

Can I be honest with you? You are not weak because you feel afraid. You are not “less spiritual” because anxiety still sneaks into your chest even while you are praying. You are not broken because …

07/10/2025

Be limitless in this life especially when you know your place in your Creator.

The one we believe in is limitless, then we have all the confidence to be as well🥰

03/10/2025

People who are called Apple of God's eyes were or are born between September & December 🙃

You can argue with yourself 🤗

01/10/2025

If you have ever lived under the shadow of a narcissist, you know how it feels to slowly disappear. One day, you realize you don’t even recognize the woman in the mirror. You’ve twisted yourself into someone you never wanted to be in order to survive. If this is you, sis, I see you. I want you to know: you are not crazy, you are not weak and you are not alone....

If you have ever lived under the shadow of a narcissist, you know how it feels to slowly disappear. One day, you realize you don’t even recognize the woman in the mirror. You’ve twisted yourself in…

24/09/2025

Have you ever looked at your life or your business and thought, “Why do I always end up back at the starting point?” Maybe you’ve started a new routine, launched a project, or made a big decision… only to feel like it slips through your fingers just when you were getting somewhere. If that’s you, friend, you’re not lazy, broken, or inconsistent....

Have you ever looked at your life or your business and thought, “Why do I always end up back at the starting point?” Maybe you’ve started a new routine, launched a project, or made a big decision… …

23/09/2025

Did you know that starting and not finishing projects is another sign of unresolved trauma?🥴🥴🥴

22/09/2025

A brand new week
Brand new opportunity
We try again this week as if it's the first time...yet again

https://nothandodlaminee.wordpress.com/2025/09/17/transitioning-from-people-pleasing-to-boundary-setting-in-the-workplace-without-losing-your-job/

17/09/2025

Have you ever stayed late at work when you were exhausted, gave in to tasks that drain you or kept quite when someone crossed the line because you do not want to seem to be the "difficult one"; you are not alone. For women who are trauma survivors, the workplace can seem like a battlefield whereby one wrong move can cost your peace, reputation even your job for that matter....

Have you ever stayed late at work when you were exhausted, gave in to tasks that drain you or kept quite when someone crossed the line because you do not want to seem to be the “difficult one…

15/09/2025

One of the things holding us back is the issue of unresolved trauma(s).
You can fast,pray and do whatever until you become realistic with yourself and confront the trauma: you will be stagnant.

This is because it's embedded in our nervous system which is super powerful in your body.

Confront those aliens and start living❤.

Sanibonani

12/09/2025

Learn to live life ❤❤
Not surviving

10/09/2025

Being groomed in or with trauma, wires women to accept bare minimum or just enough because dreaming big felt unsafe or selfish. This makes them to be in survival mode for the rest of their life. Statements like, “If I’m doing well, what about those I left behind?” This leaves them in a survival and keep them small. As a woman, wanting more does not really mean erasing gratitude; it simply expands what is possible for self, family and the whole community at large....

Being groomed in or with trauma, wires women to accept bare minimum or just enough because dreaming big felt unsafe or selfish. This makes them to be in survival mode for the rest of their life. St…