03/08/2018
MARRIAGE VALUES
As we know, marriage is our life target though it fails to many but it does not leave the fact, it was their dream too. However, before we need to pick the right persons at the right time and this is a blessing. In fact I can't think of something that can sums up dating but with the divorce rates as high as they are, it makes sense that it takes the right person, right time and right reasons to make fulfilling strong marriage. Remember in my punishment `` UNDERSTANDING LOVE" dated 31st/07/018 we said LOVE is ``a decision " and this makes marriage `` A LIFE TIME COMMITMENT" which must be followed by `` HAPPINESS" otherwise it ``FAILS" therefore to keep this fuel called happiness, the persons involved must have values kept at all times and these values are what am calling marriage values. With my understanding I strongly believe that once these values below are reflected then marriage can b sweeter.
√Honesty and trust, but sometimes it's OK to fudge.
√Commitment, but some commitments are just too hard to keep.
√fidelity, you don't plan on having an affair but who knows the future.
√Loyalty, it might be necessary to violate a loyalty if another's safety is at risk.
√Devotion to parents,parents are important but spouses comes first.
√Generosity, I will give, but only after I've taken care of myself..can't work.
√Peace making, sometimes evil needs to be confronted even with violence.
√Living simply, work hard for my money. What can't enjoy it's rewards!
√Kindness, some people are too kind and others take advantage of them.
√Self control. I believe in being flexible and spontaneous, not being uptight.
√Education, education is over rated, I wouldn't sacrifice current wants for it.
√Sacrifice. Suffering and delayed gratification have no use and are to be avoided.
√Friendship, friends are nice but family and spouse are more important.
√Children, value your freedom more.
All in all it is important to remain grounded and patient when you are seriously committed to someone but also remember the following are very important too.
❤❤love❤❤
❤❤❤Time❤❤❤
❤❤❤selflessness ❤❤❤
❤❤❤Cleanliness ❤❤❤
❤❤❤faith❤❤❤
❤Brains❤
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