12/20/2025
Single parenting during the holidays is a different kind of emotional load — one that rarely gets named out loud.
You’re carrying the joy, the logistics, the traditions, the decisions, the financial strain, the late nights, the comforting, the planning… all on your own.
And most people will never understand the weight of that.
The holidays magnify the gaps: the missing support, the loneliness that sneaks in after the kids go to bed, the pressure to create memories while trying to hold yourself together.
It’s not that you don’t love your children — it’s that you’re doing the work of two people on one nervous system, one income, and one heart.
If this season feels heavy, it doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you’re human.
And still, your children feel your love.
They feel your effort, your intention, your steadiness, your presence.
All the small moments you think go unnoticed?
They’re building your child’s sense of safety in ways you may never fully see.
To every single parent doing this alone:
You are carrying something extraordinary, and you deserve the same tenderness you give your children.
You’re not behind. You’re not inadequate.
You’re doing more than enough — even on the days it feels like you’re barely holding it together.
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