The Institute for Healing

The Institute for Healing We believe in our clients ability to heal and grow.

We are a holistic multidisciplinary practice providing play therapy, adolescent therapy, adult therapy, occupational therapy, and neuropsychological evaluations.

There’s a version of parenting we’re sold — the one where we’re endlessly patient, endlessly available, endlessly regula...
12/14/2025

There’s a version of parenting we’re sold — the one where we’re endlessly patient, endlessly available, endlessly regulated.
And then there’s the version most parents are actually living right now:
overwhelmed, stretched thin, financially stressed, emotionally exhausted, and still trying to give their kids everything they can.
Burnout isn’t a personal failure.
It’s a natural response to carrying more than your nervous system was designed to hold.
Between the rising cost of living, limited support systems, cultural pressure to “do it all,” and the emotional weight families are under… it makes sense that some days feel impossible.
And on those days?
Showing up at all is an act of courage.
If you’re parenting through your own struggle, here are gentle ways to support yourself:
• Lower the bar on perfection. Your kids don’t need extraordinary — they need connection.
• Give yourself micro-moments of care (slow breaths, grounding touch, one quiet minute).
• Let repair be enough. You don’t have to get every moment right.
• Name what’s hard. Shame loses power when spoken.
• Ask for support where you can. Small help still counts.
You are not meant to parent alone.
You are not meant to be endlessly calm while carrying chronic stress.
And you are not failing — you’re navigating a very hard reality with so much love.
Be gentle with yourself. Your presence, even imperfect, is enough.
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The holidays can bring joy — but they also highlight a reality many families are quietly living:rising homelessness, hou...
12/08/2025

The holidays can bring joy — but they also highlight a reality many families are quietly living:
rising homelessness, housing instability, and shelters pushed beyond capacity.
Parents are trying to make memories while navigating fear, displacement, and uncertainty.
Children are absorbing more than we think: the stress in the home, the tension in their caregivers’ voices, the instability beneath their feet.
Housing insecurity isn’t just a financial issue —
it impacts nervous systems, development, and a child’s sense of emotional safety.
And when parents are overwhelmed, their own regulation becomes harder to access.
This season, one of the most meaningful gifts we can offer our children is honest, compassionate conversation — not about fear, but about empathy, resilience, and community.
How we talk to our children about hardship matters.
It shapes the way they understand struggle, the way they offer kindness, and the way they learn to feel safe even in uncertain moments.

It’s hard to talk about, but it’s real:Many parents are walking into the holidays carrying fear, debt, rising costs, and...
12/06/2025

It’s hard to talk about, but it’s real:
Many parents are walking into the holidays carrying fear, debt, rising costs, and a level of financial pressure their bodies were never meant to hold.

And here’s the truth we almost never say out loud:
Financial stress changes your nervous system.
It affects how quickly you get overwhelmed, how present you can be, and how much capacity you have left by the end of the day.

Not because you’re failing…
but because your brain thinks it’s protecting you.

If you’re parenting while financially stretched thin, I want you to hear this:
You are not a bad parent. You are a parent doing the best you can in a very difficult moment.

Small moments of grounding matter. Repair matters. Your presence matters — even when it feels shaky.

You’re doing more than you realize.
And your kids feel the love long before they feel the stress.

If you’ve been wondering why parenting feels so hard lately… this is why.Parents today are doing more with less:• less c...
12/01/2025

If you’ve been wondering why parenting feels so hard lately… this is why.
Parents today are doing more with less:
• less community support
• less extended family nearby
• less financial stability
• less childcare access
• less downtime
• less margin for emergencies
• less emotional bandwidth
And at the same time, you’re carrying more:
• more pressure to be patient
• more expectations to stay regulated
• more fear about the world
• more overstimulation
• more emotional labor
• more responsibility
• more guilt when you feel overwhelmed
You aren’t struggling because you’re “bad at this.”
You’re struggling because you’re human —
in a time that makes parenting uniquely difficult.
If the holidays feel heavier than joyful…
If you’re juggling bills, burnout, anxiety, or exhaustion…
If you’re doing your best but still feel like it’s not enough…
Please hear this:
Your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a present one —
even if that presence is tired, quiet, stretched thin, or healing.
Small moments of connection matter more than perfect routines.
Your love is still showing up in ways you don’t even notice.
And the fact that you care this much is proof:
You’re doing enough.

It feels like everyone is talking about holiday magic…
but so many families are carrying private heaviness right now.Mon...
11/29/2025

It feels like everyone is talking about holiday magic…
but so many families are carrying private heaviness right now.
Money stress.
Housing insecurity.
Rising prices.
Anxiety about the future.
Emotional burnout.
Feeling stretched too thin.
A nervous system that feels maxed out.
If you’ve been extra overwhelmed, short-tempered, distracted, or numb — this isn’t a personal flaw.
It’s a response to a world that is objectively harder to parent in.
The statistics tell the story clearly:
🔸 Most families are living paycheck to paycheck
🔸 Many can’t afford basic needs
🔸 Anxiety levels in parents continue to rise
🔸 Housing instability is impacting families everywhere
You’re not imagining the weight.
You’re carrying it.
And still, you show up.
You keep loving.
You keep trying.
You keep holding space for your child even when you feel empty.
That is resilience.
That is care.
That is enough.
As we move through the holiday season, remember:
Your presence is more powerful than anything you can buy.
Your calm moments matter more than perfect routines.
And your child’s emotional safety grows from connection — not perfection.
If this season feels heavy, you’re not alone.
And you’re doing better than you think.

Anxiety doesn’t just live in the mind — it lives in the nervous system.And children are wired to attune to their parent’...
11/23/2025

Anxiety doesn’t just live in the mind — it lives in the nervous system.
And children are wired to attune to their parent’s nervous system long before they ever understand the meaning of words.
That’s why research shows:
➡️ Kids with an anxious parent are significantly more likely to struggle with anxiety themselves.
Not because they’re “doomed,” but because they learn safety, threat, and emotional responses through us.
Here’s the hopeful part:
Patterns are learned — which means they can be unlearned.
When you notice your own worry rising…
When you hear your anxious thoughts getting louder…
When you catch yourself predicting the worst…
You have a powerful opportunity to pause and shift — not just for yourself, but for your child’s future emotional landscape.
Try this grounding moment together:
🫁 Shared breath: Inhale for 4, exhale for 6.
👐 Name the moment: “We’re safe right now.”
💬 Redirect gently: “Let’s focus on what we can control.”
🤝 Connection over correction: Sit close, soften your voice.
Every time you regulate your nervous system, you teach their nervous system how to feel safe.
This is how generational anxiety patterns begin to heal — not through perfection, but through awareness, attunement, and small repetitions of calm.
Your healing becomes their foundation.
And that’s the most powerful gift you can give.

What if the problem isn’t your child… but the way we expect them to communicate?Children aren’t wired to sit down and ex...
11/20/2025

What if the problem isn’t your child… but the way we expect them to communicate?
Children aren’t wired to sit down and explain their feelings the way adults do. The part of the brain responsible for emotional regulation, impulse control, and verbal communication is one of the last areas to fully develop — which means kids naturally express what they feel through play, behavior, and imagination long before they can express it through words.
So when a child acts out, shuts down, gets overwhelmed, or “won’t talk,” it isn’t defiance.
It’s communication.
Play is often the first place their nervous system feels safe enough to show us what’s happening inside. It becomes the bridge between their emotional world and our understanding of it.
And in therapy, that’s exactly why play is so powerful — it meets children at their brain’s developmental stage, allowing them to process, express, and heal in the way that comes naturally to them.
If your child is struggling right now, remember:
They’re not broken.
They’re communicating in the only language their developing brain has access to.
And we’re here to help you understand what they’re trying to say.

We don’t always realize it, but our kids are constantly tuning into us—our tone, our breath, our pace, our stress. Long ...
11/16/2025

We don’t always realize it, but our kids are constantly tuning into us—our tone, our breath, our pace, our stress. Long before they understand language, they understand our nervous systems.
And that means this truth can feel a little uncomfortable:
Our children’s emotional states often reflect our own.
Not because we’re failing. Not because we’re “bad parents.”
But because kids are biologically wired to co-regulate with the adults they trust the most.
When we’re overwhelmed, they feel it.
When we’re steady, they anchor to that too.
Your calm body becomes their safest place to land.
The goal isn’t perfect regulation. It’s noticing your stress sooner, pausing before reacting, and repairing when needed. Every time you do, you’re teaching their brain: “I’m safe. I can settle. I can come back to connection.”
Parenting doesn’t start with the right words—
it starts with a regulated nervous system.

💛 Share this with a parent who needs the reminder that they’re doing better than they think.

When children don’t feel emotionally safe, they learn to silence themselves.They stop sharing what hurts — not because t...
11/14/2025

When children don’t feel emotionally safe, they learn to silence themselves.

They stop sharing what hurts — not because the pain goes away, but because they no longer trust it will be met with care.
Dismissive responses (“You’re fine,” “Stop crying”) might seem small in the moment, but over time, they teach a child to question their own feelings — to believe that big emotions are wrong or inconvenient.

Emotionally safe parenting does the opposite. It tells your child:

🩵 Your feelings matter.
🩵 You are not too much.
🩵 You are safe with me.

Perfection doesn’t build trust — presence does.

Your child’s brain is constantly growing — not just in size, but in connection. Every interaction, tone of voice, and mo...
11/08/2025

Your child’s brain is constantly growing — not just in size, but in connection. Every interaction, tone of voice, and moment of calm or chaos helps shape the way their brain learns to respond to the world.

When parents feel regulated, safe, and supported, children’s brains feel that too. That’s because emotional safety literallywires the brain for connection, confidence, and resilience.

Counseling isn’t just for moments of crisis — it’s a space where both parents and children can strengthen these neural pathways, learn emotional regulation, and create healthier patterns together.

You don’t need to be perfect to raise a healthy mind — just willing to pause, reconnect, and grow alongside them. 💛

Because when we care for our own mental health, we’re caring for theirs too.

The questions that make you pause — “Why is the sky blue?” or “What happens if I mix these together?” — are more than mo...
11/07/2025

The questions that make you pause — “Why is the sky blue?” or “What happens if I mix these together?” — are more than moments of wonder. They’re the building blocks of your child’s brain development, confidence, and creativity.

When we nurture curiosity, we’re not just teaching facts — we’re teaching how to think, how to explore, and how to trust themselves in a world that often tells them to quiet their questions.

You don’t have to have all the answers. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is, “Let’s find out together.”
Because when curiosity is met with connection, it becomes the foundation for lifelong learning — and emotional resilience. 🌱

Sometimes I catch myself worrying about all the things that might happen—if they’ll fit in, if I’m doing enough, if the ...
11/01/2025

Sometimes I catch myself worrying about all the things that might happen—if they’ll fit in, if I’m doing enough, if the world will be kind to them.
And then I remember… the way I handle that worry is teaching them how to handle theirs.
They don’t just hear my words—they feel my nervous system.
So I’m learning to breathe before I speak. To soften instead of spiral.
Because I want their inner voice to sound a little more like calm than fear. 💛

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