02/20/2026
What is a linking object?
A linking object is a symbolic item we hold onto after the loss of a loved one. It might be their sweater, favorite records, books, a day planner, perfume, or even saved voicemails. These meaningful items can bring comfort and help us feel connected while navigating grief.
Finding your linking object is deeply personal. Many people choose something tactile they can hold, smell, hear, or see — because our senses can powerfully access memories. The scent of cologne, the sound of a voice message, or cooking their favorite meal can help us feel close in moments we miss them most.
There is no “right way” to grieve. Holding onto a linking object isn’t about staying stuck — it’s about honoring love and memory while healing.
If you are coping with spouse loss or parent loss and want support in a compassionate, therapist-led setting, HOPE Connection is here for you in the Los Angeles area.
Call (818) 788-HOPE (4673) to learn more and join a HOPE Connection grief support group today.