02/09/2026
Walk for Peace with the venerable monks
She screamed “Messiah” in panic.
The Venerable answered with calm and clarity.
Messiah Messiah Messiah
Messiah Messiah
Can somebody help her, please? Are you okay? Are you okay?
Are you okay?
The government.
Okay. Everything will be all right. Okay, let’s get back.
If we keep doing this to ourselves, and our mind is not clear, we need to purify these thoughts when they pop up. We need mindfulness to see the thoughts as they arise and to recognize they are present. When you see them clearly, you can manage them. You can manage your feelings and your emotions.
Most problems start with emotion.
When something happens, when someone throws lemons at us like I said earlier, we react right away. That is our habit. We react too fast, and then we suffer.
When you are mindful, you do not react so quickly anymore. You either take a deep breath to calm down, or you face the problem as it is, without judgment.
Even if someone criticizes you or curses at you, if you do not take it, it belongs to that person. It does not belong to you. You suffer because you choose to receive it.
It is like a rope on fire. If I hold a burning rope and throw it at you, you have a choice. You can grab it or you can let it fall. If you grab it, it burns you and it burns me too. We both become barbecue. But if you do not grab it, the fire rope comes back to me. I burn myself, not you.
This is how we should respond to problems, big or small.
But to do this, you need mindfulness. Mindfulness does not appear because you talk about it or think about it. Mindfulness is practice. Mindfulness is practice through the breath.
You breathe every second to stay alive, but you do not pay attention to your breath.
All you need to do is add awareness to the breath going in, and add awareness to the breath going out.
Breathe in, know the breath is coming in.
Breathe out, know the breath is going out.
Pay attention to the breath as it is. Do not force it. Do not make it long or short. Breathe normally, the way you are breathing right now.
When you keep breathing in and out with awareness, thoughts will pop up. Past thoughts, future thoughts, good thoughts, bad thoughts.
Your job is not to push thoughts away. Your job is not to eliminate them. Your job is to observe them.
Observe the thought.
Acknowledge it. Silently say, “Thought.”
Then come back to the breathing.
Thought, come back to breathing.
Thought, come back to breathing.
Your only job is to return to the breath at the nostrils.
If you hear any noise, any sound, observe it and acknowledge it.
“Sound, sound.”
Then come back to the breath.
If you feel sensations in your body, itching, numbness, pain, observe it and acknowledge it.
“Itchy, itchy,” or “Feeling, feeling.”
Then come back to the breath.
When you close your eyes and breathe like this, these things happen because concentration grows. You start seeing what is happening inside the body and the mind.
This is what you need to do every day.
You already breathe, but you usually breathe without knowing it. Now you breathe with awareness. You know the breath going in and out.
It is simple because the breath is already with you. You do not need to borrow it. You only need to use it in the right way.
If you do not practice now, in your last moment you will understand how important the breath is. At that moment you will fight for each breath. But if you practice now, mindfulness helps you in your last moment too. It helps you stay focused. It helps you stay calm. It reduces panic. It reduces anxiety. It supports depression recovery.
The goal is not to chase cures. The goal is to purify the mind. When the mind becomes pure, other things settle in the way they should.
Peace begins like this.
When you are mindful, you do not react the way you used to. You do not hurt others. You do not hurt yourself. You stay at peace.
Peace begins when you slow down.
Do not chase. Do not run. Slow down.
When you watch the monks walking, you pause everything. You focus. You pay full attention. In that moment, you feel peace and joy.
That is what I hoped for when I started this journey. I hoped people would slow down, stop, and look at us, so they would see themselves.
When you let go of everything and simply look at the monks, you come back to yourself. You reflect. You see how much you rush. You see the monks walking with mindfulness, and you ask yourself, “Why do I rush? Why do I suffer?”
Then you find your own answer. You understand how important peace is.
That is why we are here tonight, right?
Peace is what we are looking for.
Our message is simple. Our key is the way to peace, which is mindfulness practice.
Mindfulness is not only for Buddhists. It is for all beings. Everyone breathes. Everyone has a breath. All you need to do is pay attention to it.
We are not here to convert anyone. We are here to raise awareness for peace. Loving-kindness and compassion are necessary in this world. Without loving-kindness and compassion, there is no peace.
If you can love the person who hates you, who hurt you the most, that is loving-kindness. That is compassion. If you can forgive that person, that is loving-kindness.
But how many of us can do that?
Most of us love only the people we like. That is what we call love.
And the word “love” is easy to say. “I love you.” We say it all the time.
But do you mean it, or is it habit?
Like brushing your teeth, you do it without thinking because it is a habit.
Like driving a car, you do it without thinking because it is habit.
In the same way, we have an old habit of not paying attention to breathing. Now we must train a new habit, focusing on the breath.
To change an old habit, you need a new habit to replace it.
I will give you an example.
When I first ordained, I had a habit of shaking my leg while sitting. A friend noticed and asked me, “Venerable, what are you doing?” I said, “I’m eating.” She asked again. Then I looked down and saw my leg shaking.
From that day, I promised myself I would stop. Every time I sat down, I held my knee and reminded myself. It took time, but one day it was gone. A new habit replaced the old habit.
This is how you change.
You need consistency. You need repetition.
Now let’s talk about mornings.
When your alarm goes off, most people hit snooze. The mind negotiates. “It’s cold. Five more minutes.” Then five minutes becomes much more, and you lose the whole morning.
One thought can steal your whole day. Sometimes it can steal your whole life.
So here is a technique.
When the alarm goes off and you do not want to get up, give yourself five seconds.
Count backward.
Five, four, three, two, one, get up.
Get up right away. Do not negotiate.
Then what next?
Make your bed. Fold your sheets. Make it neat.
Then go to the bathroom without your “lover,” your phone.
Put a sign on the door, “No phones in the bathroom.”
Brush your teeth. Do what you need to do.
Then take a piece of paper and a pen. Write this sentence.
“Today is going to be my peaceful day.”
Write it.
Read it with your eyes.
Say it out loud with your mouth.
You give your hands and your mind one job together. This helps you remember throughout the day.
This statement reminds you that no one can ruin your day except you.
Remember the rope of fire. If you do not grab it, your day stays peaceful. If you grab it, you ruin your day.
It takes effort to have a peaceful day, but it is easy to ruin it. So do not waste your effort.
Then throughout the day, do one thing at a time.
No multitasking.
Eat and focus on eating.
Brush your teeth and focus on brushing.
Wash your face and focus on washing.
Walk and focus on walking.
This is mindfulness practice. This trains concentration.
When you have peace, your family also has peace. They do not have to see your stressed face. When you bring calm home, your home becomes safe.
Peace spreads like this.
One person becomes peaceful.
One family becomes peaceful.
Then it spreads to other families.
This is your mission with the venerable monks, to spread this message.
If everyone practiced mindfulness and sent the message, “Today is going to be my peaceful day,” every day, the universe would reflect it back as kindness, compassion, and peace.
That is how peace grows.
So let’s practice together, starting tonight.
When you leave here, be mindful of each step to your car.
Do not rush.
Do not react.
Do not give someone a harsh look if they bump into you.
Be mindful, step by step.
When you drive, keep your eyes on the road. Do not focus on breathing while driving.
When you get home, go to the bathroom without your phone.
Then eat mindfully.
Tomorrow morning, start again with the statement.
Today is going to be my peaceful day.
Thank you so much. May you all be well, happy, and peaceful.