11/14/2025
Validating your child's perspective can transform your relationship.
Instead of shutting down, embrace open communication and create a safe space for your child to express themselves.
Here are three practical ways to do just that:
1. Active Listening: Give your full attention, acknowledge their feelings, and reflect back what you hear. This shows you value their thoughts.
2. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Encourage deeper conversations with questions that require more than a yes or no answer. It invites them to share freely.
3. Create a Safe Environment: Let them know it's okay to express difficult feelings without fear of judgment. This builds trust and openness.
Improving your connection takes time, patience, and it is always a work in progress.