Rhodes Respite Care

04/30/2024

Great day at Rhodes with many Queen of hearts❤️

10/14/2023

06/02/2023

Love💙💙Made our own pizzas!! Thank you Kathy Todd Stallo Brantley Epps Isom Maureen Dorin

05/10/2023

Enjoying the sunshine❤️ Brantley Epps Isom Kathy Todd Stallo Myra Sightler Raffini Karen Pruitt

05/10/2023

We love celebrating, Dwight!! Love him❤️Happy Birthday!! Kathy Todd Stallo Brantley Epps Isom Myra Sightler Raffini

05/02/2023

Sweet day❤️ Kathy Todd Stallo

04/25/2023

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04/19/2023

Thank you, Stacey and kids, for sharing your time! Kathy Todd Stallo and you too!

04/07/2023

Look who came to visit us yesterday🐰🐰Happy Easter✝️✝️✝️✝️

04/04/2023

Precious babies💙

03/31/2023

Posted elsewhere, excellent advice for families! Thanks, Kathy Todd Stallo , for sending me this!

1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.
2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.
19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

ᴄᴏᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴀsᴛᴇ in Honor of someone you know or knew who has dementia. In Honor of all those I know and love and lost who are fighting Dementia/Alzheimer’s.
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03/31/2023

What an awesome day at Rhodes Respite Care! Thank you, Chad Wright-Pittman for sharing your amazing talent with the guitar! And, thank you, Debra Venturella Keiser and Vicki Ann Raymond for volunteering your time❤️