02/16/2026
Dementia Caregiver Tip: When Your Loved One Refuses Medication
Medication refusal is very common in dementia and is usually not about being “difficult.” Changes in memory, perception, taste, swallowing, fear, or confusion can make pills feel unsafe or unnecessary to your loved one.
Here are gentle strategies that often help:
• Stay calm and reassuring. Avoid arguing or insisting, which can increase anxiety and resistance.
• Offer simple explanations. Try short phrases like, “This will help you feel better,” rather than complex details.
• Change the timing. If they refuse, step away and try again in 10–15 minutes. A fresh approach often works.
• Use familiar routines. Give medication at the same time and place each day. Pair it with a pleasant activity, snack, or favorite drink.
• Check comfort first. Pain, nausea, dry mouth, or needing the restroom can increase refusal.
• Offer choices when possible. “Would you like it with water or juice?” gives a sense of control.
• Ask about alternatives. Pharmacists or providers may offer liquid forms, dissolvable tablets, or different schedules.
• Never hide medication unless approved by a healthcare professional. Some medications cannot be crushed or mixed with food.
Most importantly, remember this behavior is part of the disease — not stubbornness. Your patience and compassion make a meaningful difference.
If medication challenges are becoming overwhelming, you are not alone. Support, education, and caregiver breaks are available.
Join our Dementia Caregiver Support Group in partnership with Heart To Heart Hospice
• First session: This Wednesday at 4:00 PM
• Location: Northern Lakes Nursing & Rehabilitation Center
• Education, guidance, and compassionate support from professionals and fellow caregivers
• Complimentary adult day services available during the meeting
Northern Lakes also offers adult day services, respite stays, and memory care support to help families navigate the dementia journey.
You are doing an incredibly important and loving job.