11/17/2025
One reason teens don’t “just do the right thing” is because empathy isn’t automatic — it’s built through reflection. In the blog, I talk about how teens learn empathy by slowing down and identifying what someone else might be feeling.
This question helps them do exactly that.
Instead of telling them how to act, you’re helping them connect to the emotions behind the situation — which activates the same skills they need in friendships, problem solving, and conflict.
🧠 Teens who pause to connect the situation → to their own feelings → to possible solutions build stronger emotional literacy over time.
Want more strategies to help your teen strengthen this skill?
Click the link in the bio or below to read the full blog:
https://drjennifersalerno.com/helping-teens-build-empathy/
📌 Save this post — you’ll use this question the next time your teen talks about friend drama.