01/16/2026
This is Day 5 of a 30-day series about noticing what actually matters when you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol.
Most people think clarity comes from a big moment.
A crisis. A breaking point. Something dramatic.
But for a lot of people, the clues were there long before anything felt “out of control.”
They’re usually quiet.
More mental effort than it used to take.
More rules, resets, and expectations.
More thinking before and after.
These aren’t failure signals.
They’re feedback.
This series isn’t about waiting for things to get worse.
It’s about recognizing patterns while you still have options.
If you’re sober curious, doing Dry January or Dry July, or quietly paying closer attention to your drinking, you’re in the right place.
I’m sharing one reflection each day to help you build clarity without pressure.