02/19/2026
Step Six is often misunderstood.
“We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.”
For many people in recovery, the hardest part isn’t identifying the defects. It’s becoming entirely ready to let them go.
By Step Six, you’ve done the inventory. You’ve seen who you’ve been. The question becomes simple but confronting: Are you willing to change?
In this reflection, I share a therapist’s perspective on why Step Six is the turning point. A doctor doesn’t heal a broken arm. A farmer doesn’t force growth. They set the conditions. Recovery works the same way.
Step Six is the bridge between who you were and who you are willing to become.
Willingness is where transformation begins.