Biblical Counseling Center

03/23/2026

Silence lets problems fester, while selfish speech inflames them. Scripture calls us to something harder, yet better: learning to speak truth in love, serving relationships rather than ourselves. The answer to silence isn't more silence or screaming, but constructive dialogue.

03/20/2026

The greatest danger in faith is giving too much power to your past. Learn from it, but don't let mistakes, hurts, or unresolved injustices keep you from moving forward. Living with your gaze backward is like driving while only looking in the rearview mirror.

03/18/2026

When conversations turn critical, cutting, or cold, the real question isn't just about legitimacy. It's about what you brought to the table from the start. The tone we set in conflict often dictates the outcome.

03/17/2026

What if, instead of waiting for the other side to change, we started with a different question: What am I contributing to this division?

Read this great article by Dr. Tim Allchin on the topic of conflict resolution.

Editor’s Note: This article is part one of a two-part series that helps us deal with division in our lives, relationships, and our world. Conflict finds all of us. Whether it’s a family that refuses…

03/09/2026

As adults, we must guide children with thoughtful answers, not shallow ones. Environmental readiness is key: choose the right time and place. Ensure comfort, privacy, and minimize distractions for effective communication.

03/08/2026

Understanding common mindsets and biblical foundations is key to meaningful conversations with children. Don't offer simplistic answers to complex issues like anxiety or the struggles with temptation. True preparation prevents shallow responses and allows for genuine connection.

03/07/2026

Ever feel like you've told your kid exactly what they need to hear, only for them to ignore it? That's the behavior-based intervention ceiling. The gospel offers something deeper: not just reformed conduct, but a renewed heart. As Psalm 139 says, 'Search me, O God.'

03/07/2026

Whether you attended the first session or were unable to join us online, this second training day will stand on its own while also building on the heart behind our PLAN framework—a clear, Christ-centered way to listen well, respond wisely, and walk patiently with young people over time.

Track One: A Plan to Care for Teens

Practical guidance for engaging the unique spiritual, emotional, and relational challenges of the teenage years with grace and truth.

Track Two: A Plan to Care for Dating/Engaged Couples

Equipping parents, mentors, and church members to wisely support young couples as they prepare for marriage and establish Christ-centered foundations.

Click HERE to register!

https://secure.fundeasy.com/ministrysync/event/home.php?e=32256

03/07/2026

Your teen stands in the doorway, their words hanging heavy: "I need to tell you something." In that instant, your heart races, your mind races. What do you do? Most of us have faced a similar moment, wishing we had a roadmap for these difficult conversations. This is about how to approach them without making things worse, and truly reach the heart.

02/28/2026

We are excited to share about BCC’s Caring for Young People Conference hosted at Grace Fellowship Church in Oak Forest, IL!

This special gathering brought together pastors, counselors, parents, and ministry leaders who share one heartbeat: to care wisely and biblically for the next generation. In a time when young people are facing increasing pressures, confusion, and emotional struggles, we were reminded that Scripture speaks with clarity, hope, and compassion.

It was a blessing to see men and women eager to grow in skill, wisdom, and love for young people in their communities.

We are so grateful to Grace Fellowship Church for their hospitality and to everyone who invested their time to learn how to better shepherd the hearts of youth.

Let’s continue building churches where young people are known, cared for, and pointed faithfully to Christ.

STAY TUNED FOR PART #2 you can join ONLINE or in person if you are in the area!

02/25/2026

We believe that every parent, youth worker, and caring adult needs a PLAN — a clear, biblical way to listen well, respond wisely, and walk patiently with young people over time. That’s why we’re offering a two-part Saturday training series centered on our P.L.A.N. framework for faithful care.

We want to invite you to our next course!

Use this link to register!

You can join online or in person.

https://secure.fundeasy.com/ministrysync/event/home.php?e=32014

02/18/2026

New Post Alert!!!

Every parent has been there. You’ve taught your child what’s right. You’ve read them the verses. You’ve done everything you know to do — and still, your child chooses disobedience. You’re left asking, “Why is my child acting this way?”

Click in here to read the post!

https://biblicalcounselingcenter.org/why-does-my-child-keep-disobeying-five-heart-level-influences-every-parent-should-know/