12/22/2025
You’re not alone if you are feeling sad, overwhelmed, or lonely this season. The term “holiday blues” came about because the holidays aren’t always cheerful for all. The holidays can also be a time when grief and loss can feel more magnified. Here are a few suggestions to help navigate the blues:
👉Decide what responsibilities are manageable for you- If it feels too daunting to try to get a personalized gift for each person, to cook a full meal, or to decorate as you have in years’ before, adjust your expectations of yourself this year. Give yourself grace to feel emotion and celebrate the holiday season differently, as seasons of life can be different.
👉Do make an effort to be around others- Turning down attending that 3rd holiday get together may be absolutely reasonable. But isolating completely will enhance those feelings of loneliness. Sometimes you have to give yourself a nudge to be around others, even when you feel low energy or it’s less than desirable. Sharing memories, traditions, and a hug from others can often bring comfort and ease sadness.
👉Take care of yourself- Try to lift your mood through things like exercise, treating yourself to something you enjoy, getting plenty of sleep, or starting a new holiday tradition for the different season in your life. Remember, alcohol or other substances can magnify a sad, lonely, or irritable mood.
👉Reach out for support- Allow yourself to feel your emotions without shame, but also take care of yourself by recognizing when it’s more than you can handle on your own. If you can’t kick those holiday blues, don’t hesitate to ask a friend or loved one for help (whether it be to get you out of the house for a while, an ear to listen or shoulder to cry on, or someone to help you locate professionals who can help)
💙If you feel you need additional support, reach out to a local mental health office in your area.
💙If your welfare or safety becomes an immediate concern, call 988 for the National Su***de and Crisis Lifeline.