Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC Autism/ADHD Expert & Author: Diagnoses, Therapy, Couples’ Counseling, Coaching, and Consultations Besides English, she is fluent in Hindi, Urdu, and Konkani.

Eva Mendes is a skilled and successful couple’s counselor working with couples where one or both partners have Asperger Syndrome, and are on the Autism Spectrum (diagnosed or undiagnosed). She also specializes in ADHD and those with related neurological profiles. Since 2009, she has worked almost exclusively with highly accomplished and gifted neurodiverse adults. Originally from Mumbai, India, Eva has expertise in treating individuals and couples from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Eva offers groundbreaking, research-based, practical solutions to life's challenges tailored to each client’s needs, neurology and personality. Clients who work with Eva report feeling motivated, and empowered to change their lives with strategies and resources that actually work. Eva provides a combination of proven therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, Positive Psychology and Mindfulness Practices. She leverages both the latest research, and her professional experience to help people overcome obstacles and create lasting and happy relationships. An expert on the topic of Asperger Syndrome and social-communication challenges, Eva has spoken at conferences and colleges. She has written several papers on this subject and a thesis, Bridging Parallel Play in AS Marriageeva mendes asperger marriage. Eva leads the popular Spouse and Partners’ and the Couple’s Support Groups as well as the Women's Support Groups at the Asperger Association of New England. Having completed her bachelor's degree in Economics and Psychology at Sophia College, Mumbai, India and Vermont College in Montpelier, Vermont, Eva went on to receive her master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Union Institute and University in Brattleboro, Vermont. Eva is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). She is a member of the National Board for Certified Counselors, and a member of the Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association. A published poet, long-time yoga practitioner, and a Buddhist, Eva was a successful graphic designer in her career prior to counseling. In addition to psychotherapy, couples' counseling, diagnosis and consultations, Eva is also available for speaking engagements, training's, and workshops. She is also currently accepting clients for life and relationship coaching by phone or video conferencing.

Wishing you a New Year filled with joy, growth, and endless possibilities. May this year bring inner transformation, new...
01/02/2026

Wishing you a New Year filled with joy, growth, and endless possibilities.

May this year bring inner transformation, new beginnings, and countless moments of love, peace, and happiness. ✨

01/01/2026

Bodhi, my beautiful cat…Everyone who meets him instantly melts… he’s just the gentlest little cuddle-boy with the softest heart. Truly the sweetest furry friend who loves nothing more than snuggles and being adored. 🐾💛

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encoura...
12/30/2025

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encouraging affirmations around things like self-acceptance, emotional regulation, executive functioning, social skills, sensory sensitivities, school, work, and relationships.

They’re little reminders to help you feel seen, supported, and grounded exactly as you are.

Here’s today’s card. 💛

12/29/2025

This book shares real stories from neurodiverse couples, offering insights into their communication, growth, and love. Learn from their lived experiences and discover what makes these relationships thrive. 💛

Grab your copy today and start your journey!

The holidays can be hard some of us are far from family, some are navigating discord, and some find that even being toge...
12/26/2025

The holidays can be hard some of us are far from family, some are navigating discord, and some find that even being together brings its own mix of friction, tender moments, and the unique growth that only family can stir. Whatever this season holds for you, you’re not alone. The holidays can hold both joy and complexity, and all of it is welcome.

And through it all, may this new season offer moments of gratitude, opportunities for growth, and gentle reminders of what matters most. Warm holiday wishes to you and yours.

www.eva-mendes.com

Wishing everyone a most beautiful, peaceful holiday season filled with moments of quiet joy, gentle reflection, and hear...
12/25/2025

Wishing everyone a most beautiful, peaceful holiday season filled with moments of quiet joy, gentle reflection, and heartfelt connection. May your days be wrapped in warmth, your nights be restful, and the coming year bring renewed hope, good health, and steady happiness for you and those you love. 💗 💝❤️🎉🎶✌️

12/25/2025

Are autistic and non-autistic partners compatible?

It depends on the people, not the labels. When couples understand each other’s strengths, challenges, and values, they can build a strong, connected relationship just like any couple. 💙

12/24/2025

The holidays can be hard some of us are far from family, some are navigating discord, and some find that even being together brings its own mix of friction, tender moments, and the unique growth that only family can stir. Whatever this season holds for you, you’re not alone. The holidays can hold both joy and complexity, and all of it is welcome.
And through it all, may this new season offer moments of gratitude, opportunities for growth, and gentle reminders of what matters most. Warm holiday wishes to you and yours.

www.eva-mendes.com

12/24/2025

Eva Mendes is a couples’ counselor and Autism Specialist who supports neurodiverse couples in building stronger communication.

12/23/2025

From a little lost kitten in the Bahamas to the cuddliest part of our family… Buddy has been bringing us purrs. Five years later, he’s still our fluffy little sunshine who lives for pets, purrs, and melting our hearts every single day. 🐾💛

Real change in a neurodiverse relationship doesn’t happen in one big breakthrough; it unfolds slowly, through consistenc...
12/20/2025

Real change in a neurodiverse relationship doesn’t happen in one big breakthrough; it unfolds slowly, through consistency, compassion, and small steps over time.

While intensives can bring clarity and momentum, what truly matters is what happens afterward, the space to process, practice, and grow together.

12/17/2025

Thank you so much for your thoughtful feedback. I truly appreciate your kind words and am glad the content in my workshop for over 40 therapists was helpful and relevant.

Your support motivates me to keep improving and sharing.

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