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Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

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Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

Autism/ADHD Expert & Author: Diagnoses, Therapy, Couples’ Counseling, Coaching, and Consultations Besides English, she is fluent in Hindi, Urdu, and Konkani.

Eva Mendes is a skilled and successful couple’s counselor working with couples where one or both partners have Asperger Syndrome, and are on the Autism Spectrum (diagnosed or undiagnosed). She also specializes in ADHD and those with related neurological profiles. Since 2009, she has worked almost exclusively with highly accomplished and gifted neurodiverse adults. Originally from Mumbai, India, Eva has expertise in treating individuals and couples from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Eva offers groundbreaking, research-based, practical solutions to life's challenges tailored to each client’s needs, neurology and personality. Clients who work with Eva report feeling motivated, and empowered to change their lives with strategies and resources that actually work. Eva provides a combination of proven therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, Positive Psychology and Mindfulness Practices. She leverages both the latest research, and her professional experience to help people overcome obstacles and create lasting and happy relationships. An expert on the topic of Asperger Syndrome and social-communication challenges, Eva has spoken at conferences and colleges. She has written several papers on this subject and a thesis, Bridging Parallel Play in AS Marriageeva mendes asperger marriage. Eva leads the popular Spouse and Partners’ and the Couple’s Support Groups as well as the Women's Support Groups at the Asperger Association of New England. Having completed her bachelor's degree in Economics and Psychology at Sophia College, Mumbai, India and Vermont College in Montpelier, Vermont, Eva went on to receive her master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Union Institute and University in Brattleboro, Vermont. Eva is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). She is a member of the National Board for Certified Counselors, and a member of the Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association. A published poet, long-time yoga practitioner, and a Buddhist, Eva was a successful graphic designer in her career prior to counseling. In addition to psychotherapy, couples' counseling, diagnosis and consultations, Eva is also available for speaking engagements, training's, and workshops. She is also currently accepting clients for life and relationship coaching by phone or video conferencing.

04/01/2026

Something small… but important 👇
We’ve updated our website link ✨
🔗 www.mendescounseling.com

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same support, just easier to find.

03/31/2026

Think of communication in marriage like a series of “peace talks.”
It rarely takes just one conversation to reach alignment.

It requires consistency, openness, and the willingness to keep showing up for the dialogue.

That’s what builds a true partnership.

03/29/2026

Sometimes, the most important signs are the ones we don’t immediately see.

Young women on the autism spectrum may navigate the world differently, often managing challenges internally while appearing outwardly composed.

Understanding these subtle differences allows us to offer better support, empathy, and guidance.

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03/25/2026

We often try to change our partner…
but real change begins with us.

Every conflict is a chance to reflect:
Am I reacting or responding?
What can I do differently?

Small daily changes create powerful shifts in a relationship.

You don’t need a perfect partner, just a conscious effort.
Comment “GROWTH” if you’re working on yourself
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03/21/2026

Evan’s story from my new book that shows how an understanding of ASD can turn conflict into connection. Real couples. Real conversations. Real growth.

If this resonates with you, follow for more stories like this and tap the link in my bio to read the full book. 📖💛

03/19/2026

Understanding neurodiverse relationships begins with empathy, awareness, and self-understanding. 💛

Different minds work in different ways and learning those differences can help build stronger, more compassionate relationships.

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03/17/2026

They’re not shutting you out; they’re simply trying to make sense of what’s happening. A little patience and a lot of compassion go a long way in love. 💛

03/15/2026

Real couples. Real patterns. Real solutions.

After hearing “just tell us what to do” again and again, this step-by-step roadmap was created to turn confusion into clarity and action.

Practical, goal-driven, and built from real conversations because progress should never feel overwhelming.

03/12/2026

Feeling seen and understood can change everything.

Grateful to support clients on their journey to clarity and self-understanding.

03/10/2026

My third book, Conversations on Love and Autism, explores what really happens in neurodiverse relationships.

From intimacy and communication to parenting, finances, and couples counseling experiences, this book brings honest conversations from couples who have lived it.

If you’ve ever thought, “This sounds exactly like my relationship,” you’re not alone.

03/08/2026

In this video, I’m reading a short moment from my book Conversations on Love and Autism to show something important even happy neurodiverse couples have hard moments. You’ll hear how a small misunderstanding can turn into emotional distance, and how those patterns begin.

What I love most is that these stories don’t stop at the low points; these couples show us how to grow, reconnect, and move forward together. If you’ve ever thought, “This sounds like us,” you’re not alone. 💙

03/06/2026

Therapy isn’t about changing who you are it’s about understanding yourself more deeply and building the tools that actually work for your brain. 💛

Whether you’re navigating autism, ADHD, anxiety, executive functioning challenges, identity, or burnout you deserve support that’s affirming, practical, and culturally aware.

You don’t have to mask. You don’t have to over-explain. You don’t have to do this alone. 🌿

Ready to take the next step toward clarity and confidence? ✨

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50 Grove St, Fl 2nd
Arlington, MA
02474

Opening Hours

Monday	9am - 4pm
Tuesday	9am - 6pm
Wednesday	9am - 6pm
Thursday	9am - 6pm

Telephone

+16176693040

Website

http://www.eva-mendes.com/

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