02/10/2026
Just want to share a bit of a conversation I had today. The topic was how we finally reach a point, in our lives, where we disconnect from the toxic people in our lives. We are raised to be nice, polite, get along with others and be that team player, even if they are abusive. Raw truth, if we allow them a spot at our table, we are allowing that abuse. If you choose to accept the invite to sit at their table, we are again, allowing them to treat us this way.
Welcome to the age where we choose what table to sit at. We have the right to say no, I am not allowing you to treat me this way. There is a price to pay for everything. A bit of grief comes with increasing that distance from people… even if they are toxic. Having confidence in YOU and knowing your people will come along. Set your own table. Do the things that enrich and fulfill you. In that practice, the right people will be attracted to your light. In this case, a choice to set a table for those most vulnerable in our community is nothing short of amazing.
Raising your vibration is hard, sad and sometimes lonely work. But it also holds the most reward. Be the best version of yourself. Do nice things, be kind and live simply.