01/04/2026
Did you know your body is preparing for labor weeks before you ever notice anything?
People imagine labor starting with a dramatic water break or a sudden wave of contractions, but the truth is… your body has already been quietly doing the work long before that moment.
There’s this whole unseen phase where things begin shifting:
Your hormones start talking to your baby.
Your baby sends signals back.
Your cervix slowly softens.
Your uterus practices with those little warm-up tightenings.
Your ligaments adjust.
Your whole nervous system starts to settle into “birth mode.”
All of this is happening under the surface while you’re going to appointments, making dinner, trying to get comfortable at night, wondering when things will finally “start.”
But your body has already begun.
I tell my clients this because so many people feel like they’re waiting on a deadline—like nothing is happening until a contraction shows up. And that’s just not true. You aren’t stagnant. You aren’t behind. You aren’t failing to “go into labor.”
Your body is unfolding the process slowly, quietly, and completely on its own timeline.
Labor doesn’t start in one moment.
It builds.
It whispers before it roars.
And when you understand that, the waiting feels a little less frustrating and a lot more like part of the journey.
If you’re in that season of “any day now,” trust this: the work has already begun inside you. Your body and your baby are in conversation—long before you ever feel the first wave.