02/18/2026
Walking alongside families isn’t about direction.
It’s about presence.
It means letting go of the idea that I’m there to guide, fix, or steer someone toward the “right” choices. It means trusting that families are already the experts on their own lives, their bodies, their limits, their values.
My role isn’t to lead the way—it’s to match their pace.
Sometimes that looks like offering information and then stepping back.
Sometimes it looks like silence instead of advice.
Sometimes it looks like holding space while someone changes their mind three times in a row.
Walking alongside means I don’t rush decisions just because I feel anxious. I don’t project my preferences onto their process. I don’t confuse support with control.
It also means staying grounded when things get messy.
When plans shift.
When emotions run high.
When the path forward isn’t clear.
Leading would mean pulling.
Walking alongside means staying.
It’s honoring autonomy even when I see a different route. It’s respecting consent not just in bodies, but in conversations, choices, and timing.
Families don’t need someone to take over. They need someone steady enough to stay present without taking the wheel.
That’s what it means to walk alongside—not ahead, not behind, but right there with them.