Inviting Abundance

Inviting Abundance Grief Classes, Workshops & Projects; Reiki Sessions & Classes; Teaching, Learning & Writing Support We both earned our Ph.D. degrees by the age of 29.

Welcome to Inviting Abundance, a collection of wellness and educational services for people seeking to engage with the complexity of life. To help you understand the scope of these services, we offer this brief introduction about us:

Together, we have achieved a great deal. We have travelled and lived abroad. We have published books and essays on various topics. Our backgrounds in the performing arts and literature have brought us into contact with international artists and thinkers, many of whom we count as our greatest friends and teachers. None of our achievements, however, prepared us for the death of our son in June, 2014. Finlay Emilio died of unknown causes at the end of 20+ hours of labor, and his departure from this world broke us into millions of jagged pieces. Finlay's death devastated us, clarified what mattered most to us, and opened us up in ways we could not have previously imagined. Our slow process of healing has allowed in new ways of thinking, feeling, learning, and growing. We recognized, as Rumi says, that light enters through the wound. We soon realized, however, that no pre-existing job matched our unique blend of abilities and life experiences. Instead of trying to fit ourselves into a place that didn't feel quite right for us, we decided to make a place crafted with creativity and care. Inviting Abundance is a space where we continue to grow and thrive as we work with others who want to cultivate a purposeful and creative life attuned to the complexity of the world and their own hearts. There is great abundance in grieving, in continuing your education, and in embracing significant life changes. To access this abundance, you need to invite it in. We want to help you craft your invitation.

- Joanne Zerdy & Will Daddario

Join our next Creative Approaches to Grief Workshop. https://invitingabundance.net/upcoming-events/grief-workshop-march2...
01/22/2026

Join our next Creative Approaches to Grief Workshop. https://invitingabundance.net/upcoming-events/grief-workshop-march2026

Together, we'll explore how language, physical environments, our bodies, and rituals can support our grieving processes.

We welcome old and new grief; individual and collective grief. While we designed this workshop with active grievers in mind, we welcome folks looking for new ideas to support the bereaved.

Join us this February 🌅 There's such a need for compassionate and creative teachers and facilitators right now. Are you ...
01/21/2026

Join us this February 🌅 There's such a need for compassionate and creative teachers and facilitators right now. Are you one of them?

BUILD YOUR CLASS https://invitingabundance.net/build-your-class
is a 4-week online workshop that provides logistical, pedagogical, and emotional support to help you materialize your offering.

Workshop topics:

Week 1: Developing your teaching practice
Week 2: Engaging learners through in-class activities
Week 3: Refining your class/workshop proposal
Week 4: Testing your ideas

In solidarity with all of our fellow grievers...
01/14/2026

In solidarity with all of our fellow grievers...

Dear MISS Foundation and Selah Carefarm Friends,

Year after year, bereaved families honor us with their trust, sharing stories of devastating loss and unwavering love. These families remind us why our work matters and drive us forward in our mission to provide compassionate, meaningful support to those navigating the most unbearable journey anyone can face.

In 2025, the MISS Foundation and Selah Carefarm continued to serve grieving individuals and families through compassionate, community-based care grounded in dignity, presence, and love. Our work reached people locally, nationally, and internationally, responding to traumatic loss with tangible support, education, and sustained accompaniment.

At Selah Carefarm, we provided nearly $300,000 in free crisis intervention and counseling care, ensuring that financial barriers never prevented families from receiving support during their most vulnerable moments. The Carefarm also received 895 individual intakes, reflecting the growing need for nature-based, relational grief care for those navigating profound loss.

Our commitment to children and families remained central. In 2025, we distributed dozens of specialized grief packets for children, including The Colors of Loss and Love in both English and Spanish, offering developmentally sensitive tools to help children express grief through creativity and story. Through our Kindness Project, we distributed 2,165 free kindness packets worldwide, extending compassion and connection far beyond our physical location.

Community education and professional training were also core pillars of our mission. This year, we delivered nearly 500 hours of community education, reaching diverse audiences including institutions such as Harvard Law School and the Mayo Clinic. These efforts focused on compassionate bereavement care, traumatic grief, and the ethical responsibilities of professionals working with loss. Additionally, we provided nearly 100 hours of clinical supervision to Compassionate Bereavement Care® (CBC) providers, strengthening the quality and integrity of grief support offered in communities across the globe.

Peer support remained a powerful avenue of connection. Our HOPE Mentor Program facilitated 90 mentor connections, representing approximately 360 hours of volunteer mentor support. These relationships offered steady, lived-experience companionship to those navigating grief, often during periods of profound isolation. Across MISS Foundation programs, we also completed 338 intake requests from grieving individuals and families seeking resources, care packets, and referrals to grief services. Our in-person and online support groups continued to provide safe spaces where bereaved families could share their painful stories with compassionate peers who understand the weight of similar losses.

Beyond human care, Selah Carefarm continued its unwavering commitment to nonhuman animals. Throughout the year, we lovingly cared for more than 60 abused and neglected animals, many of whom arrived with their own histories of loss, terror, and trauma. These animals are not adjuncts to the work; they are central to the carefarm’s healing ecosystem, offering quiet presence, safety, and mutual restoration. In recognition of our highest standards of ethical care, Selah Carefarm achieved Global Federation of Animal Sanctuaries (GFAS) certification in 2025, affirming our commitment to excellence, transparency, and animal welfare.

Our founder Dr. Joanne Cacciatore was honored in 2025 with induction as a Fellow of the American Academy of Social Work and Social Welfare (AASWSW), a distinction recognizing scholars, practitioners, and policy leaders whose work advances social good through sustained, high-impact contributions. She also received the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC) Research Recognition Award, honoring her decades of scholarship and leadership that have significantly contributed to the field of thanatology and the understanding of death, loss, and bereavement.

With the support from our fundraising advisor Carrie Ostroski and key team members, the MISS Foundation received a generous grant that spans the next 3 years from the Diane & Bruce Halle Foundation to help support grief therapy services at the Selah Carefarm. We also received very generous funding from Sue Franciose in honor of her precious daughter Emily (pictured below), the Dorrance Family Foundation, the Denver Foundation, the Jordan Kammrath Memorial Scholarship Fund, the Douglas Madsen Scholarship, the Cade Pendergraft Scholarship, and from many other extraordinary givers. These thoughtful and compassionate gifts allowed us to continue to serve our grieving families.

In 2025, a feature-length documentary about Selah Carefarm entered the film festival circuit. Produced by Jon Bregel, the film offers a quiet, intimate exploration of what it means to live with grief rather than “recover” from it. The documentary follows bereaved individuals, rescued animals, and the land itself as they move through daily acts of care, remembrance, and presence. Without offering cures or tidy resolutions, the film invites viewers into a slower ethic of healing rooted in relationship, nature, and compassion, revealing how beauty can emerge alongside sorrow when grief is met with patience, dignity, and love. Bregel’s collaboration with Selah Carefarm reflects a shared commitment to honoring grief with honesty, reverence, and depth.

This Giving Tuesday brought an extraordinary challenge: Grace's mom, a longtime MISS volunteer and supporter, offered a $5,000 matching gift if we could meet it. The response was overwhelming. In just 36 hours, 21 generous donors rallied together to not only match her gift but triple it—raising $15,000 for our programs. Special thanks to Phil and Hethie Parmesano. We are truly grateful for each and every donation, as well as the dedicated in-kind contributions from our volunteers, staff and supporters who work tirelessly to support our grieving families.

We would like to thank each of you from the bottom of our hearts for being a friend of the MISS Foundation and the Selah Carefarm. We simply cannot do this work without you!

We are grateful to everyone who has already supported our work this year. If you would like to make an end-of-year gift, there is still time—online donations and checks postmarked by December 31, 2025 are tax-deductible for this fiscal year. Your contribution helps us continue providing vital support to bereaved families in 2026 and beyond.

https://www.missfoundation.org/donate/

Gentle New Year's Eve love from all of us at the MISS Foundation and Selah Carefarm.

Charlotte Friends- please help spread the word!! 👩🏼‍🎨👧🏿🧕🏽👶🏻🙋🏼🧑🏾‍🦲We gather THIS Sunday for our 2nd Families for Liberati...
12/10/2025

Charlotte Friends- please help spread the word!! 👩🏼‍🎨👧🏿🧕🏽👶🏻🙋🏼🧑🏾‍🦲We gather THIS Sunday for our 2nd Families for Liberation event.

We'll have bookmark, button, print, and jewelry-making stations for kids! They can get creative, have their sweet faces painted, enjoy a warm meal, and bring home something from our community closet!

You can also purchase raffle tickets for a beautiful basket and buy art & crafted items for holiday gifts -- all proceeds will benefit the Carolina Migrant Network 😍

Thanks to the amazing organizing team from:






This community-building event series centers on connection, compassion, creativity, and collective liberation.
💞💫🙌🏾🎨

Registration extended to December 10th! 📬 https://invitingabundance.net/grief-pen-palsJoin nearly 300 people who've sign...
11/30/2025

Registration extended to December 10th! 📬 https://invitingabundance.net/grief-pen-pals

Join nearly 300 people who've signed up to be Grief Pen Pals over the past 5 years. Write one letter a month for 6+ months to a fellow griever navigating their way through the world.

Sliding-scale registration begins at $20
*Please reach out to Joanne -- grow [at]invitingabundance.net -- if this fee poses a financial burden

Trans-Inclusive Offering

Whether you're processing grief from 6 months ago or 6 decades ago, you're warmly welcome to join this creative grief project.

Please feel free to share with those in your circles who might like to participate. Thanks! 💌

📣 New Online Workshop ~So many of us are balancing a lot right now: Personal, employment, family, neighborhood, and/or c...
11/20/2025

📣 New Online Workshop ~

So many of us are balancing a lot right now: Personal, employment, family, neighborhood, and/or community needs.

This two-hour online workshop https://invitingabundance.net/herbal-supports-for-compassionate-warriors is designed as a space to gather, decompress, and learn about plant allies well known for their abilities to support our nervous systems.

Join one of the upcoming sessions to connect with other compassionate warriors who are putting time and effort into make the world a better place.

Engage in a few reflective activities to slow down, attend to your body, and create some useful reminders for yourself to ground in the coming weeks and months.

Participants receive a wee Workshop Package from Finlay's Garden with herbal teas and hand-stamped cards.

Trans Inclusive Offering!

Dates:
Monday, December 1 - from 10am-12pm EST
Friday, December 12 from 12-2pm EST
Saturday, January 3 from 4-6pm EST
Wednesday, January 21 from 7-9pm EST

Sliding-scale registration begins at: $40
*No one turned away for lack of funds -- please reach out to Joanne at grow [at] invitingabundance.net

Join us in the coming weeks for these small group & heart-forward online offerings!🌹Herbal Supports for Compassionate Wa...
11/10/2025

Join us in the coming weeks for these small group & heart-forward online offerings!

🌹Herbal Supports for Compassionate Warriors -
is a 2-hour workshop for those working in some way to bring about a better world - for their loved ones, their communities, and/or the world at large. Learn about plant allies with an affinity for our nervous systems and engage in reflective activities.

🤲 Holding Space for Pregnancy Loss -
is a 5-hour, 2-part training for everyone who wants to feel more confident is supporting those who experience any kind of Pregnancy or Infant Loss.

📝 Build Your Class -
is a 4-week workshop for those of you needing logistical and/or emotional support as you create your own class, workshop, or project to put into the world.

All of our offerings are Trans Inclusive!
Registration is a Sliding-Scale Basis!

✨️ Learn more by clicking on our Bio Link

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NEW💫 Herbs for Warriors Class AND Will's New Book: The Last Laugh 😮~Check out some resources for these trying times.~Enj...
11/07/2025

NEW💫 Herbs for Warriors Class AND Will's New Book: The Last Laugh 😮
~Check out some resources for these trying times.
~Enjoy a Fall discount at Finlay's Garden Shop for stocking up for handmade goodies.
~Join us for an upcoming class or workshop.

https://mailchi.mp/28ef3317b412/fall-2025-news

Final Call 📣 Our next online Grief Workshop begins this Sunday - Join us! 🎨 This Workshop invites you to try out new way...
10/29/2025

Final Call 📣 Our next online Grief Workshop begins this Sunday - Join us! 🎨 This Workshop invites you to try out new ways of navigating with/in your grief. https://invitingabundance.net/upcoming-events/grief-workshop-nov2025

While we designed this workshop for those who are grieving something(s) or someone(s), we also welcome those interested in learning new approaches for supporting grieving friends, clients, and community members. You needn't consider yourself an "artistic" or "creative" person in order to join us 🤗.

Each week we provide you with an optional activity prompt based on a particular topic/theme:

💙 Language/Writing
💛 Mapping/Zoning
💜 Body Awareness/Embodied Thinking
💚 Designing Rituals

*Registration is on a sliding-scale basis.
*Our group is capped at 10 participants.
*Trans Inclusive.

NEW Workshop 🍃💫 Joanne has been piecing together this workshop for a while! She's thrilled to offer this virtual space f...
10/23/2025

NEW Workshop 🍃💫 Joanne has been piecing together this workshop for a while! She's thrilled to offer this virtual space for learning, connecting, slowing down, and planning ahead. https://invitingabundance.net/herbal-supports-for-compassionate-warriors

We welcome Compassionate Warriors 💗💪🏽💪💪🏿🦾💪🏻💗 of all stripes -- those who pull from deep wells of strength, courage, resourcefulness, and determination to tend all that needs tending in our world.

**As always, our offerings are Trans Inclusive!**

This two-hour workshop:
💚 Introduces you to a handful of plant allies that have an affinity for our nervous systems
🧡 Shares some ideas for incorporating them into your daily life
💛 Invites you to take part in gentle, reflective activities
💜 Provides you with a Pre-Workshop Mini-Package of a trio of herbal tea bags & pair of hand-stamped Reminder Cards
🤎 Sends you a list of Additional Resources to support your Warrior Journey

📅 Upcoming Dates:
Monday, December 1 - from 10am-12pm EST
Friday, December 12 from 12-2pm EST
Saturday, January 3 from 4-6pm EST
Wednesday, January 21 from 7-9pm EST

Sliding-Scale Registration:
$40 ! $60 ! $80

*Please reach out if you need a reduced registration rate due to limited financial means :)

Photos all come from Finlay's Garden 3.0 🐌

10/23/2025

"There are losses that unmake our words. We learn this, not from a book but, from the empty chair, the quiet where a voice once lived.

The world says be efficient, be productive, as if a wound could be taught manners.

But the first lesson of grieving is older than speech, the dark soil under every feeling. It is the real work of the living, not the thin busyness we call a life. It is the heavy, night work that redraws each morning.

Go outside. Stand by the field where the grasses lean. Watch the hawk take the long circle. Let your own heart slow to the pace of shade and sun.

We have been trained to run from the heart—speed where stillness is needed, spectacle and judgment where witness is required—and the cost is clear: Countries that refuse grief are bereft of mercy and tenderness. When we cannot grieve, we cannot love without fear.

Integration comes when we sit among ashes without pretending, when we keep company through the long weather of absence, when we allow the broken truth of grieving to do its patient work.

Whatever is sold to us, remember: what saves us does not come in a bottle. It comes as a small bird on a fence line, a hand taken without hurry, the faithful return of lightness, the compassion in another’s eyes." (2009, journal entry)

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This is a throwback to a journal entry from 2009.

I was reading it this morning as I came across my 'retired' ones. I was writing from my more wise self to my own heart at the time as a reminder of why I was committed to the heavy, and worthy, work of fully inhabited grief.

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Our Story

Driven by our experience as grieving parents and PhD researchers in the Arts and Humanities, we started Inviting Abundance in 2017 in order to offer something that didn’t yet exist. We imagined a place where grief work, individual and group education, self-care, and alternative healing combine into a holistic suite of services for people from all walks of life. This imagined place is our business, which we grow a bit each day.

Our grief journey derives its momentum from the death of our son, Finlay, on June 5, 2014. Since then, we have (mostly) shifted our attention away from academia where we had worked for nearly a decade to the interpersonal relationships forged between grievers. We have met many people suffering from the death of a loved one, infertility and pregnancy loss, a chronic illness, a heartbreaking end to a relationship, and countless other painful life experiences. These meetings led us to offer specific grief work opportunities for those who are seeking to open to grief.

The births of our second son, Phalen, and third son, Ren, added texture to our daily experience of grief. Ren in particular, who was born with a complex heart condition, teaches us the precariousness of everyday life and has challenged us to interface with the Western medical system on a weekly basis. To power ourselves, we draw from Phalen’s internal white light and Finlay’s guidance, and we attempt through the act of parenting to increase our empathy for all forms of life on this planet.

All the while, we have pursued our individual education. Will continues to be active in the academic world as editor of a book series, online journal, and articles about a wide range of topics in the Humanities, in addition to his writings on grief. After leaving academia, Joanne attained a Permaculture Design Certificate and completed an intensive 1000-hour course in Herbalism, in part to cultivate the work of Finlay’s Garden. Together, we use our various educational experiences to design online classes and individual mentorship packages to support others as they cultivate their critical, creative, scholastic, and imaginative thinking.