Lindsey is a psychotherapist who specializes in working with college students and young adults, help
12/05/2022
when you’re feeling disconnected from your partner, what’s the hard thing you aren’t saying? when you’re feeling disconnected from yourself, what’s the hard thing you are ignoring? it’s simple but it’s not easy. closeness--to ourselves and to others--comes when we are honest about what’s going on inside (our thoughts, fears, dreams, desires, feelings).
12/02/2022
meet kristen! now officially accepting bcbs insurance 🎉, kristen helps nervous new-to-therapy folx recover from toxic relationships, accept their bodies, & learn to trust themselves again. she says, “my clients are often curious about why they’re attracted to partners who treat them poorly, what a healthy relationship even looks like, and how to make the often hard decisions that allow us to experience more fulfillment in our relationships, within ourselves and with others.” learn more about kristen at thebreakuptherapist.com.
11/12/2022
learning to trust ourselves - instead of only using external validation / cues / data - is a *game-changer.*
11/07/2022
Fun being a tourist in our own town for a weekend. Grateful for chosen family who love my kiddo 💜🙏
11/02/2022
‘mom, what does looking in the mirror mean?’ my daughter asks after our 17th listen to the new tswift song. (i don’t always have the best age appropriate answers but this one i handled okay. usually i end up talking about capitalism, the patriarchy, or white supremacy, regardless of what she’s asking me to explain. out of juice boxes? probably something to do with capitalism tbh). i’m trying to be a little more honest about my work/life balance which requires me to look at some hard things … not always fun.
how can you be a little more honest with you today?
10/28/2022
everyone meet alice! alice is currently accepting new clients and offering a generous sliding scale for BCBS clients as we check the mail daily for her BCBS contract to come through 🤞. alice specializes in supporting q***r folx navaigate relationships to themselves and to others while helping you find the courage to be authentic. she is a certified music therapist, too, with strong training in grief and loss. alice says, “my clients are ready to be honest with themselves but aren’t sure how to do that. i help motivated, passionate people figure out what it means to live a life full of integrity and alignment. i know there’s a way forward, if you’re willing to step off the trail.” learn more about alice at thebreakuptherapist.com.
10/12/2022
more exciting news this week y’all - becky is now in-network with blue cross blue shield! 🎉 we’re stoked, as increasing mental health accessibility is a founding tenet in this group practice. becky works with curious, motivated folks who need help navigating the grief of big life upheavals. she also specializes in helping folks with ADHD learn to thrive in a world that wasn’t designed for them. she’s got some openings - schedule an appointment via thebreakuptherapist.com.
10/07/2022
celebrating one full year of my book being out in the world! a good friend recently sent me this pic and i just really love knowing that this journal is hopefully helping people out there find some healing. if you know anyone going through a breakup, consider sharing this resource with them! link in bio to buy it from my favorite hometown bookstore, .
10/03/2022
our practice is growing! we’ve now expanded to four therapists - top row: lindsey and kristin, bottom row: alice and becky! our therapists are all focused on helping you heal your relationship to yourself and to others through a developmental, trauma informed, and attachment lens. each therapist brings their own spice and uniqueness to the practice - learn more about each of their specialties and reach out for an appointment: https://www.thebreakuptherapist.com/
09/12/2022
Of course you miss them (or maybe just parts of them). What if you believed this was normal to miss someone? What would happen if you expected that you may feel that way? Could you be more open to just having the feeling if you knew it might be coming? What if it doesn’t mean anything except that you miss them?
09/02/2022
Their response (aka something you have absolutely completely no control over) doesn’t get to determine if the convo ‘went well.’ How *you* showed up determines that. Did you stay true to yourself? To your message? Were you aligned and acting out of integrity? Did you speak up when you needed or stay quiet when that was right for you?
Sure, we can hope that our message was well-received, but that particular outcome isn’t the measure of a good or helpful convo.
08/15/2022
It’s harder (damn near impossible, actually) to process our feelings when we’re thinking them. You’ll know you’re thinking your feelings if you’re judging them, trying to problem solve, or rationalizing away your feels. To practice actually *feeling* your emotions instead, start by noticing physical sensations in your body in the present moment.
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I love doing this work because I've been on the other side of it. I've experienced first hand the life long benefits of good therapy. I've been stuck in ruts where I've doubted my ability to make a change. I know how it feels to feel shame, sadness, and uncertainty in relationships.
The first time I ever went to therapy was after a breakup. I had initiated the split, so why was I so devastated? Turns out, it's actually really, really hard to walk away from someone you love. In fact, you'll hear me say that it's one of the toughest decisions you may have to make during your life.
I was hesitant and nervous about therapy, not knowing what to expect. Thank goodness I stepped out of my comfort zone and asked for help. You can, too.
Looking back, I cannot imagine how I would have made it through this tough time and difficult transition without a little guidance and extra support, encouragement, and accountability. Feelings of empowerment, independence, and joy replaced those feelings of shame, sadness, and uncertainty.
My path will not be your path. My experiences are not yours. But I do have some great insight (not to mention professional training) into what you might be going through right now.
Specialty areas and qualifications:
- Master of Social Work (MSW) from The University of Pittsburgh School of Social Work
- Bachelor of Arts (BA) in Religion and African American Studies from Rhodes College
-Licensed Clinical Social Worker in North Carolina (P008887)
-Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialists-Associate in North Carolina (21449)
Academic and professional interests include:
-finding your footing after a breakup,
-therapy with college students and young adults,
-LGBTQ+ affirming,
-promotion of self advocacy and empowerment,
-mental health stigma reduction,
-equality for minority and disenfranchised groups,
-support for individuals who love someone with an addiction