Tri-State Counseling & Psychotherapy, LLC

03/31/2026

03/29/2026

SECOND CHANCE SUNDAY

In light of recent heinous and disturbing comments by Senator Markwayne Mullin about spanking his daughters, it’s important we pause and reflect on what this actually means for children.

In many countries around the world, physically hitting a child is not considered discipline — it is recognised as harm. In those places, such actions would likely lead to safeguarding referrals, and in some cases, criminal proceedings. That’s because the evidence is clear: pain does not teach understanding. Fear does not build respect.

When we normalise physical punishment, we move further away from what children truly need — safety, connection, and guidance. We cannot expect children to learn emotional regulation through experiences that overwhelm their nervous system.

This isn’t about judgement. It’s about awareness. It’s about evolving what we know, and doing better because we know better.

Children deserve adults who lead with regulation, not reaction. With teaching, not hurting. With connection, not control.

Be the change in the world.

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