11/19/2025
Calming Touch for Young Children
Young children feel their world through their bodies. After busy days full of movement, emotions, and new experiences, calming, connected touch can help them unwind, feel safe, and settle into sleep.
Soft, nurturing touch boosts oxytocin (the love hormone), lowers stress, supports co-regulation, and creates a predictable bedtime rhythm that says, “You can relax now.”
Here are some simple ways to weave calming touch into your evenings:
✨ Story Time Strokes
Light strokes down the arms, circles on the back, or a warm hand on the heart as you read.
✨ Bedtime Spa Moment
Warm your hands and offer slow strokes on legs, arms, or back — gentle, rhythmic, and cozy.
✨ Naptime Hand Rest
A steady hand on the back or chest + slow humming = instant nervous system support.
✨ Cuddle Rhymes
“Round and round the garden,” tracing stars, or simple squeezes paired with songs.
✨ The Calming Crown
Soft strokes across the forehead and temples to help little bodies release the day.
Calming touch turns bedtime into connection time — a moment to end the day in love, safety, and peace. 🌙💛