10/30/2025
Your pain isn’t “all in your head.” Your nervous system is real. Your protective patterns are real. The tension your body holds is real.
What you need isn’t someone who has it all figured out, you need someone who gets that chronic pain is messy, complex, and deeply personal.
You need a clinician who understands the biopsychosocial model isn’t just buzzwords. Someone who sees your body isn’t broken, it’s adaptive and trying to protect you.
This might sound too simple, but the right support doesn’t try to convince you out of your experience. It helps you understand what’s actually happening in your nervous system so you can work WITH your body, not against it.
You deserve practitioners who can hold space for the complexity of what you’re going through. Not ones who make you feel like you’re failing when their approach doesn’t work.
Drop a 💯 if you’ve felt gaslit by content that told you to just change your thoughts or do this 5 simple steps to getting over your XYZ.
Not medical advice—just one chronically ill counselor sharing what I’ve learned about finding the right support.