09/29/2025
Lately, Iβve realized something: most people actually do know what they want β in life, in career, in friendships, in love. (And if you donβt, grab your goggles and dive into yourself)
So why dont most of us get It?
We subconsciously believe our idea of βperfectβ is unattainable. So we settle.
We take jobs that pay the bills but not the spirit. We chase money until weβre drowning in it, yet the emptiness remains.
We hold on to friendships just because of history, even though the connection no longer elevates us. We feel the disconnect, we know the wavelength has shifted but weβre afraid to let go.
We complain about what weβre not getting in love, forgetting that we can only receive what weβre open to. βNo one is perfectβ is true but itβs also an excuse. Weβre not asking for perfect. Weβre asking for fulfilling.
Love β fulfilling love β is effortless. A natural exchange between two people who are both givers and receivers.
So hereβs the challenge β for you, and for me:
Write down what you truly want in every area that feels unfulfilling. Make it your perfect, not unrealistic. Then write down what you donβt want. (You might notice itβs exactly what you keep accepting.)
Then comes the hard part: start eliminating what isnβt fulfilling. By now youβve tried to make it work, and it hasnβt changed. Resist the temptation to accept βalmostβ perfect. Hold out for exactly what you want.
You will attract it.