01/16/2026
When You Didn’t Feel Like You Belonged
Let's have an honest conversation many women in behavior analysis quietly share.
Almost every woman in the field can point to a moment, a meeting, a classroom, or a conference session, where she looked around and thought, “This isn’t my space.” Sometimes it is subtle, like your ideas being overlooked until someone else repeats them. Sometimes it is obvious, like not seeing anyone who looks like you at the front of the room or never seeing the topics you care about represented.
It is easy to internalize those moments as personal failure. But let's reframe them as data about our systems and culture, not about individual worth. Belonging in behavior analysis is not just about personal resilience. It is about the environments we create.
When we talk honestly about these experiences, we make it easier for the next person to stay, to speak up, and to help build better rooms.
If you are willing, share in the comments one time you didn’t feel like you belonged, and if you are comfortable, what helped you stay anyway. Your story might be exactly what someone else needs to read today.