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11/30/2025

Why Did You Say Yes?
In this week’s reading, we explored the real reasons behind that first “yes”—the love, the hope, the excitement, and even the hidden motivations that shape a marriage from the very beginning. But the honeymoon stage doesn’t last forever, and the truth is… every relationship eventually reaches a turning point.

The moment we realize:
We’re different.
We think differently.
We communicate differently.
We love differently.

And those differences—once beautiful—can slowly become the source of conflict.

So as we close Chapter 1, get ready…
Because next week, we step into Chapter 2: Understanding Differences—When Opposites Start to Clash.
We’re diving into how personalities collide, why opposites attract and struggle, and what those clashes reveal about the future of a relationship.

Stay tuned—Chapter 2 is where things get real. 💍🔥

11/30/2025

11/30/2025

11/30/2025

Chapter 1: Why Did You Say Yes?

In this opening chapter of What Happened to “Your Yes I Do”, we explore the very beginning of every marriage: the moment you said “yes.” But what lies beneath that powerful word? Was it love, longing, companionship, or something deeper within you?

Chapter 1 unpacks the silent motivations that draw two people together, attraction, emotional safety, infatuation, and the hope for partnership. It also reveals how those early sparks can evolve over time, sometimes strengthening the bond, other times challenging it in unexpected ways.

Whether you said “yes” out of love, comfort, or the promise of a shared future, this chapter invites you to reflect on the foundation of your relationship and what shaped your journey from the very beginning.

Join me as I read and explore the truths behind the first “yes”, and what it means for everything that follows.

11/29/2025

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11/26/2025

This video explores the history and power of morning routines, from ancient Roman practices to the habits of modern high achievers. It reveals how the first hour of your day shapes your mindset, emotional balance, and productivity, showing that mornings are not just a timeframe but a foundation for success, clarity, and personal growth. Learn why owning your morning is one of the most powerful steps toward building a disciplined, purposeful, and fulfilling life.

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11/26/2025

This video explores the history and power of morning routines, from ancient Roman practices to the habits of modern high achievers. It reveals how the first hour of your day shapes your mindset, emotional balance, and productivity, showing that mornings are not just a timeframe but a foundation for success, clarity, and personal growth. Learn why owning your morning is one of the most powerful steps toward building a disciplined, purposeful, and fulfilling life.

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11/19/2025

We often think of disrespect as loud, obvious, or intentional—but some of the most damaging behaviors are the subtle ones we don’t even notice. From interrupting others to dismissing their feelings, making assumptions, or giving half-hearted attention, these small actions quietly erode trust and connection. Understanding these hidden forms of disrespect helps us communicate better, strengthen relationships, and create a more supportive environment for everyone.

11/10/2025

Discover the difference between healthy and toxic relationship fights. Learn how to navigate conflict with respect, empathy, and effective communication. Understand why it’s not how often you fight but how you fight that determines the strength of your relationship. Build trust, connection, and resilience with proven strategies for managing disagreements.

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11/04/2025

So many relationships fall apart not because of a lack of love , but because of a lack of listening.
This piece is about what happens when someone tries to express how they’ve been hurt, and instead of being heard, they’re met with defensiveness, excuses, or counterattacks.
It’s not an argument , it’s a cry to be understood.
It’s a reminder that defensiveness kills connection, while listening builds safety, trust, and healing.

If you keep calling their honesty an attack, eventually, they’ll stop reaching out.
And that’s how relationships slowly die , not from conflict, but from silence.

This is for anyone learning to pause before reacting, to listen with empathy, and to make space for someone else’s pain without making it about their own.

11/04/2025

So many relationships fall apart not because of a lack of love ,but because of a lack of listening.
This piece is about what happens when someone tries to express how they’ve been hurt, and instead of being heard, they’re met with defensiveness, excuses, or counterattacks.
It’s not an argument , it’s a cry to be understood.
It’s a reminder that defensiveness kills connection, while listening builds safety, trust, and healing.

If you keep calling their honesty an attack, eventually, they’ll stop reaching out.
And that’s how relationships slowly die , not from conflict, but from silence.

This is for anyone learning to pause before reacting, to listen with empathy, and to make space for someone else’s pain without making it about their own.

11/02/2025