02/16/2026
I was caught in a cycle.
Monday-Thursday I had to be perfect.
Calorie deficit.
Eating clean.
Workout 5x a week.
10k steps a day.
Meal prep on Sunday.
Healthy dinners every night.
Saying no to everything.
And then real life would happen.
One slip up, and I would feel like a failure. My perfect week would come crashing down.
I was hungry.
I was tired.
I didn’t want to cook after coming home late from work.
Takeout felt easier.
A glass of wine felt deserved.
My friends would want to go out and I didn’t want to be the “boring” one.
So I would say, “I’ll start again Monday.”
And the weekend turns into pizza and cocktails and guilt.
By Sunday I felt frustrated.
I felt uncomfortable.
I felt behind.
So I would decide this week will be different.
I would go to the store.
I’d get vegetables, chicken breast and greek yogurt.
Full reset.
And the cycle continues.
Here’s the hard truth:
It’s not that you lack discipline.
It’s that your plan only works when life is perfect.
And life is never perfect.
If your strategy requires perfection to succeed, it will always fail by Friday.
You don’t need a stricter reset.
You need a system that works when real life happens.
If this cycle feels familiar, comment “ME” and I’ll send you what I recommend doing instead.