12/30/2025
“I can explain…”
If that phrase lives on repeat in your conversations, this week’s Substack may feel familiar.
Anthony’s story explores how Serial Fixers overexplain, overprepare, and overcare in an effort to feel accepted and avoid misinterpretation….and the quiet cost that comes with it!
I look at the link between overexplaining, external validation, and self-trust, and what can shift when you stop performing for approval and start letting conversations unfold.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted by your own effort to keep everyone comfortable, this one’s for you. 💛
Read the full piece on Substack at the link in bio.