03/08/2021
You cannot chose the outcome of your birth, but you can choose a provider, doctor or midwife, who you trust. I was at a birth over the weekend that would have ended in a c-section with many other providers. Instead she was patient, gave my client options and calmly waited for the baby to be born on her terms. My client was able to achieve the VBAC that she really wanted! Here are some signs that you have a supportive provider:
â¨they give you options instead of telling you what you can and canât do
â¨they truly listen to your desires for birth
â¨they take the time to listen to and answer your questions
â¨they look at your birth plan/preferences and find ways to support you
â¨they are not condescending
â¨they work for you, not the other way around
There are some AMAZING providers out there! Please please please do yourself a favor and switch if youâre unhappy with yours. Doulas are happy to give suggestions of supportive providers who weâve had the pleasure of working with.