04/06/2020
It’s easy to think during difficult times like right now that people show us who they really are, but this article gives another truthful and interesting perspective.
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"We are seeing people's true colors."
"Now we know who people REALLY are."
I understand why our brain leaps to this judgment (spoiler alert...it's the stress response) but it really truly isn't true.
A stressed brain shows us the stress response. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.
Empathy, insight, morality...these are all characteristics of a well integrated brain that FEELS SAFE.
Judgment, selfishness, attacks (physical and verbal), defiance, ignoring...these are all stress response behaviors. We have all earned our stress response behaviors. The stressed out brain is concerned with survival. The stressed out brain is deciding our best course for survival based on all our previous experiences with danger.
In every given moment, we are all doing exactly what our brain believes is the best thing to do to survive. Once we are no longer paniced about our survival, we can return to prioritizing connection with others.
Those of us who are still able to prioritize connection must remember that a crisis does not strip away people's humanity.
How might the state of your OWN nervous system shift if you could see people's bad behaviors as the stress response...not their character???