02/19/2026
With Valentineโs Day just behind us, a lot of conversations about love, connection, and relationships may still feel close to the surface.
For people with OCD, love can sometimes feel tangled with doubt, fear, and a strong urge for certainty. Intrusive thoughts about relationships, reassurance seeking, or worries about doing love โrightโ can quietly take up a lot of emotional space.
OCD can show up in relationships as overanalyzing interactions, needing repeated reassurance, avoiding closeness out of fear, or feeling responsible for preventing harm or disappointment. These patterns are not a reflection of how much you care. They are symptoms of OCD.
Healthy relationships do not require certainty or perfection. They grow through flexibility, communication, and learning to tolerate uncertainty with support.
If OCD is impacting how you experience love or connection, evidence based treatment can help. Learn more about support at www.anxietyaustin.com