12/29/2025
TOP CONTENT FROM 2025: “If you’re healthy, you’ll get pregnant easily.”
Truth: Health matters, but fertility is complex. Even perfectly healthy women in their 30s have only about a 20% chance per month of conceiving, and age, egg quality, and s***m factors all play major roles.
“Fertility only declines after 40.”
Truth: Egg quantity and quality begin to decline around age 32, and the decline accelerates after 37. Waiting until 40 dramatically reduces chances of natural conception.
“It’s always the woman’s fault.”
Truth: Male factor infertility accounts for nearly 50% of all infertility cases.
“You can’t get pregnant with endometriosis or PCOS.”
Truth: Many women with both conditions conceive, but many need help. The key is early diagnosis, hormone optimization, and individualized care.
“IVF guarantees pregnancy.”
Truth: IVF is powerful, but not perfect. Even in ideal conditions and with genetic testing, the highest live birth rates are around 65% per euploid transfer.
“You should wait a full year before seeing a fertility doctor.”
Truth: If you’re under 35, the longest you should try for is a year before getting help. If you’re over 35, only 6 months. If you have irregular cycles, known issues, don’t wait at all. You can get fertility testing at any time, and I am a huge fan of this!
“Birth control causes infertility.”
Truth: Hormonal birth control temporarily stops ovulation but doesn’t cause infertility. Normal cycles usually resume within a month after stopping. If fertility is delayed, there’s likely an underlying issue that was masked.
“If you already had one baby, you won’t have fertility issues.”
Truth: Secondary infertility is common and can stem from age, endometriosis, tubal damage, chronic inflammation or s***m changes over time.
“You can only get pregnant on cycle day 14.”
Truth: The fertile window is six days: the five days before ovulation and the day of ovulation itself. Learn how to track yours.
“You can’t improve your fertility.”
Truth: While we can’t change age, we can optimize fertility. Luck means that there is nothing you can do to change the outcome, when it comes to fertility.