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Family Constellations Austin, Austin, TX (2025)

12/20/2025

We will meet this Monday, December 22, starting at 5:30pm, in the Tranquility Room at (Casa de Luz Village, 1701 Toomey Rd, Austin, 78704).

Serving is free. We appreciate your service! Try to come at the beginning (5:30pm) and stay for the whole session (until about 9:30pm), if you can; this creates continuity and cohesiveness for the people constellating and for the group as a whole. But we appreciate you coming for whatever part you can. 🙏🏼

For more information: familyconstellationsaustin@gmail.com

Family Constellations is a way to heal trauma – from our own lives and inherited from our ancestry.

Trauma can manifest as behavioral problems, addictions, relationship problems, violence, health issues, and much more. The process of Family Constellations allows us to reveal the source of these problems, honor those from whom they came, and let go of what isn’t ours, with honor and without judgment.

The result is not only our own healing, but healing for the whole family system. We are left with compassion and gratitude, allowing us to live our own lives with love and purpose.

12/20/2025

“Falling apart” can feel uncomfortable or even dangerous. But if we are carrying what isn’t ours – inherited unhealed trauma – we need to set it down, take it off, let it fall… in order to become ourselves, which is what healing is all about.

We are all already whole and loved. There is nothing deficient or missing or flawed about who we are. We just need to uncover it. And therefore it’s okay to “fall apart.” 🥰

If you’d like more information about Family Constellations and how it helps us heal: familyconstellationsaustin@gmail.com

Our thanks to for their epic sign! 💞

12/20/2025

This is so important to understand! It’s our job to heal ourselves. ✨ Our parents did the best they could. 🙏🏼

Reposted:

Your parent’s apology won’t heal you.
And I know that’s hard to accept.
Maybe you’ve been waiting for them to finally see the pain they caused.
Maybe you’re hoping that one conversation will undo years of abandonment, neglect, or emotional unavailability.

But here’s the truth:
The wound isn’t just in your memory anymore.
It’s in your nervous system.
It’s in how you attach, how you react, how you choose.
Even if they apologize today - even if they show up better now - they can’t go back and rewire what got wired when you were little.
You have to do that.

Healing means:
✨ Facing the pain they couldn’t hold.
✨ Feeling what you were never allowed to feel.
✨Reparenting the part of you that felt emotionally abandoned.

You’re not waiting for their love anymore.
You’re learning to give it to yourself.
That’s how you break the cycle.
That’s how you stop repeating the pain in your relationships.

If you’re ready to do the real work - not just understand it, but embody it - I can help.

Let’s heal the root wound.
Not just manage the symptoms.

12/11/2025

We will meet this Monday, December 15, starting at 5:30pm, in the Tranquility Room at (Casa de Luz Village, 1701 Toomey Rd, Austin, 78704).

Serving is free. We appreciate your service! Try to come at the beginning (5:30pm) and stay for the whole session (until about 9:30pm), if you can; this creates continuity and cohesiveness for the people constellating and for the group as a whole. But we appreciate you coming for whatever part you can. 🙏🏼

For more information: familyconstellationsaustin@gmail.com

Family Constellations is a way to heal trauma – from our own lives and inherited from our ancestry.

Trauma can manifest as behavioral problems, addictions, relationship problems, violence, health issues, and much more. The process of Family Constellations allows us to reveal the source of these problems, honor those from whom they came, and let go of what isn’t ours, with honor and without judgment.

The result is not only our own healing, but healing for the whole family system. We are left with compassion and gratitude, allowing us to live our own lives with love and purpose.

12/08/2025

“You can’t overpower an emotional imprint with logic.” The nervous system doesn’t know that the danger has passed and the threat or trauma is over.

Family Constellations is a process of bringing what’s in the subconscious to the conscious so that we can see it, honor it, heal it, and leave it where it belongs – sometimes with an ancestor or at least in the past. We can hear, see, acknowledge, and free our young selves who were just trying to survive. We can then reclaim our own lives and live from love, not fear. 💫❤️

Gratitude to .grannon 🙏🏼

When you try to say “no,” a younger part of you panics.

That part learned early that conflict meant danger. Or abandonment. Or punishment.

Your adult self knows the situation is unfair. But the child part still thinks:

• “If I push back, they’ll leave.”
• “If I say no, I’m bad.”
• “If I protect myself, something terrible happens.”

Until you work with that part directly, boundaries will always feel terrifying.

You can’t overpower an emotional imprint with logic. But you can update it.

12/06/2025

“You can only defend what you believe has value. If you don’t value your time, peace, or emotional energy, you won’t enforce anything… Once the internal machinery is aligned, boundaries become natural. Not a
performance. Not a fight. A quiet certainty.“ 🙌🏼

Gratitude to .grannon 🙏🏼

Family Constellations is one way to find that alignment – by finding where we are out of place in our family system and then taking our rightful place. From there we find our value, and we allow others to take responsibility for what is theirs. We were never meant to carry what wasn’t ours. 💫

12/06/2025

We will meet this Monday, December 8, starting at 5:30pm, in the Tranquility Room at (Casa de Luz Village, 1701 Toomey Rd, Austin, 78704).

Serving is free. We appreciate your service! Try to come at the beginning (5:30pm) and stay for the whole session (until about 9:30pm), if you can; this creates continuity and cohesiveness for the people constellating and for the group as a whole. But we appreciate you coming for whatever part you can. 🙏🏼

For more information: familyconstellationsaustin@gmail.com

Family Constellations is a way to heal trauma – from our own lives and inherited from our ancestry.

Trauma can manifest as behavioral problems, addictions, relationship problems, violence, health issues, and much more. The process of Family Constellations allows us to reveal the source of these problems, honor those from whom they came, and let go of what isn’t ours, with honor and without judgment.

The result is not only our own healing, but healing for the whole family system. We are left with compassion and gratitude, allowing us to live our own lives with love and purpose.

11/28/2025

We are all born with burdens from the past that are not ours. We end up replaying and living lives from those who came before us in an unconscious (and loving) attempt to fix or balance or repay whatever was unhealed or unfinished. Through the process of Family Constellations, we can see what isn’t ours, set it down with honor (without judgment), and leave it with those to whom it belongs. We can then live our own lives and restore the natural flow of love and life that is our birthright. ✨💖

Credit: Lotusgenics Holistic Center 🙏🏼

Bert Hellinger frequently discussed the transgenerational consequences of unresolved issues, including what he referred to as “debts” — not just financial, but also emotional, moral, or systemic.

“If you don’t pay the debt, your descendants will.”

Transgenerational Entanglement: Hellinger believed that unresolved guilt, injustice, or imbalance in a family system doesn’t simply disappear; it gets passed down. Descendants may unconsciously take on the burden of what was left unfinished, often through suffering, illness, misfortune, or self-sabotage.

Bert Hellinger said:

• “The past is not past. It has effects in the present in many different ways... Only when the past is put in order are the living free.”

• “Children who were forced to take on inappropriate responsibility often later suffer illness or misfortune, or failure or early death.”

These ideas reflect his view that if a debt (symbolic or literal) is ignored, someone in the lineage will attempt to restore balance, often at great personal cost.

If a stone of unresolved pain is dropped into the ancestral river, its ripples will reach the shores of future generations unless consciously acknowledged and ritually released.

Everything is energy that is transmitted and passed on to the next generation.

11/28/2025

Bert Hellinger frequently discussed the transgenerational consequences of unresolved issues, including what he referred to as “debts” — not just financial, but also emotional, moral, or systemic. “If you don’t pay the debt, your descendants will.”
Transgenerational Entanglement, Hellinger believed that unresolved guilt, injustice, or imbalance in a family system doesn’t simply disappear; it gets passed down. Descendants may unconsciously take on the burden of what was left unfinished, often through suffering, illness, misfortune, or self-sabotage.
Bert Hellinger said:
• “The past is not past. It has effects in the present in many different ways... Only when the past is put in order are the living free.”
• “Children who were forced to take on inappropriate responsibility often later suffer illness or misfortune, or failure or early death.”
These ideas reflect his view that if a debt (symbolic or literal) is ignored, someone in the lineage will attempt to restore balance, often at great personal cost.
If a stone of unresolved pain is dropped into the ancestral river, its ripples will reach the shores of future generations unless consciously acknowledged and ritually released.
Everything is energy that is transmitted and passed on to the next generation.

11/28/2025

When an ancestor leaves things unfinished in their life, these things remain in the family field, and the family seeks out who must finish the work, the cleaning, and the order that should exist.
When an ancestor left something unfinished, such as unacknowledged anger, an unfulfilled desire for revenge, guilt, or a crime not assumed, debts, secrets, lies, unrecognized pain, repressed desires, a field of “archaic compensation” opens: the family unconscious designates a descendant to conclude what was left unresolved.
That descendant, from their conception, is then trapped in that field of archaic compensation and cannot do anything but repeat that past, until they become aware of it.
And when they become aware, that is when they separate from the past and assume their present, their emotions, and their actions, without blaming others, leaving the field of archaic compensation and entering the field of autonomy.
This whole process is entirely unconscious. And life will send us situations that mirror what the ancestor experienced, so that we live these situations from the present and as adults.
The heart of one who has understood that the present resonates with the past, both in the good and the bad, beats in harmony with the world.
—Bert Hellinger—

11/27/2025

Family Constellations is a process of healing generational trauma. Our subconscious holds what we took on unconsciously. What couldn’t be healed by those who came before us gets passed down to the next generation, and we then unconsciously repeat or compensate for what isn’t even ours.

Once we see this, we can put down what isn’t ours, leave it with whom it belongs (with honor and without judgment), then begin to live our own lives instead of replaying somebody else’s.

It can help to know our family history: who came before us and what happened – the traumatic events, the illnesses, the infant deaths, miscarriages, divorces, and so on. But if we don’t know, we can still heal. In a constellation, our subconscious field will show us what we are carrying that isn’t ours, who before us was carrying a heavy load and survived anyway (!), and we can thank them, leave what is theirs with them, and start living our own lives, feeling the love and strength of those behind us who wish us well. 💖

11/27/2025

We will meet this Monday, December 1, starting at 5:30pm, in the Tranquility Room at (Casa de Luz Village, 1701 Toomey Rd, Austin, 78704).

Serving is free. We appreciate your service! Try to come at the beginning (5:30pm) and stay for the whole session (until about 9:30pm), if you can; this creates continuity and cohesiveness for the people constellating and for the group as a whole. But we appreciate you coming for whatever part you can. 🙏🏼

For more information: familyconstellationsaustin@gmail.com

Family Constellations is a way to heal trauma – from our own lives and inherited from our ancestry.

Trauma can manifest as behavioral problems, addictions, relationship problems, violence, health issues, and much more. The process of Family Constellations allows us to reveal the source of these problems, honor those from whom they came, and let go of what isn’t ours, with honor and without judgment.

The result is not only our own healing, but healing for the whole family system. We are left with compassion and gratitude, allowing us to live our own lives with love and purpose.

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