Katie Spillar, MA, LMFT

01/30/2024

10/23/2014

A very clear explanation of appropriate use of time-outs!

The times that are most challenging for us as parents -- the times when we must discipline our kids -- are the times we have the greatest ability to support and shape a child's growing brain....

03/28/2014

Check out my recent article for expertbeacon.com
http://expertbeacon.com/strengthen-your-adoptive-family-building-trust-and-connections/

Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family. However, prior to adoption, there is usually grief, loss and trauma that impacts the brain in

01/23/2014

My most recent blog!http://www.spillarcounseling.com/mindful-parenting-adopted-children/

Many adopted children have not experienced the comfort, care, or nurture in their first few months or years of life. At times, therapeutic support is needed

01/20/2014

Please save the date for the 1st Annual Central Texas Attachment & Trauma Center Conference! April 4, 2014 ~ Austin, TX ~ 9am – 3:30pm WHY ATTEND? Parenting a child with a history of trauma can be traumatizing to parents and families. Over… [ 295 more words. ]

01/03/2014

Beautifully written! Thank you for the important reminder, Robyn!

11/05/2013

Today's blog post:
http://www.spillarcounseling.com/tbri-for-adoptive-families/

TBRI (Trust-Based Relational Intervention)f or adoptive families is an approach to parenting your attachment-challenged child or foster/adoptive child.

10/28/2013

I am excited to facilitate this group with my colleague, Elisha Tomberlin Bidwell in November!

Adoptive moms are uniquely intentional mothers who face diverse parenting joys and challenges. This group is an opportunity to connect with other adoptive moms as we take a journey into the felt-sense world of attachment and bonding, opening the door to changes in the way we offer relationship to ou...

10/14/2013

Check out my latest blog; Theraplay Techniques to Build Attachment in Your Foster/Adoptive Family!
http://www.spillarcounseling.com/theraplay-techniques/

The relationship with the primary caregiver is crucial for optimal development for a baby. Learn about the theraplay techniques that will help.