12/03/2025
Everything he said is 100% correct, the only thing I would add is that it is even harder when the toxicity is even worse than what He describes here.
When 1 or both parties are dealing with a deeper psychological issue like and or or / and when one is calling the other out and in an effort to avoid changing themselves, they point out something that is not true about the person who is calling them out. In other words, they put their sin on you. This is what we call "gas lighting" but a lot of people do not know what this term REALLY means or what it comes from (post to come on that).
In that case, when they bring the info. to you, you can't say "you know what babe, you are right" and they are refusing to say that as well, even though they should. This is what leads to a situation. It is toxic because, just like in medicine, if the negative energy can't leave the body the way it is supposed to; it stays in the system and starts causing illness until you are left with a medical condition, disease or disorder. The same thing occurs with mental and emotional issue as well it leads to death and destruction if the family system by killing peace, killing hop, killing presence and ultimately, killing love.
For help with relationship issues contact me for coaching and consulting especially if you are not in Texas, Texas residence, you can see me or any of my colleagues at for help with these and any other mental health issues. For spiritual healing, check me and my ministerial friends out at healing comes from multiple angles. The deeper the issue, the more angles/pillars that need to be addressed. Keep climbing my friends.
